Let's go thataway!

Last night after dinner Annalie wanted to go for a walk. “Just a short walk around the neighborhood,” she assured me as she unwrapped her popsicle. “It’s a lovely evening! Don’t you want to enjoy the nice weather? Pleeeease?”

golden freckled flowers
photo taken by Annalie, age 5

My mom said she didn’t think it was a good time for a for a walk, that she didn’t really feel like it just then. My initial reaction was similar. It was almost sunset, there was only a half-hour till bedtime, I was in the middle of doing something on my laptop. It wasn’t really the best time for a walk.

one spot of pink
photo taken by Annalie, age 5

Then I thought of the post Brenda wrote the other day, about the epic walk that she and her daughter went on, about how they just sort of wandered and took their time exploring and turned their walk into an all-day adventure.

gate
photo taken by Annalie, age 5

When I read that post I thought to myself that Annalie and I should take advantage of the great neighborhood we live in and go on more walks like that. Last night I started to say no, then shook my head and said, “Sure, I’ll go on a walk with you. Let me grab my camera.”

tree and shadows
photo taken by Annalie, age 5

The look of happy surprise on Annalie’s face was fun to see. She danced and skipped around my mom, exclaiming “Gramaw, we’re going on a walk! Mom said yes!” I love it when my kid is expecting “no” and I can surprise her with “yes.” It’s one of the best parts of being a parent as far as I’m concerned.

in by 12, out by 4
photo taken by Annalie, age 5

Shoes on, phone in pocket, camera around my neck and popsicle in Annalie’s hand, we headed out the front gate. It’s kind of an event for us to use the gate to leave our house. The gate is almost always locked on the inside, since our driveway is in an alley behind our house and we normally enter the house either through the garage. Pretty much the only time we use the gate is when we’re taking a walk.

tall shadows
photo taken by Annalie, age 5

Once we were on the sidewalk, I asked Annalie which direction we should travel. She looked up and down the street, then pointed left. We set off.

"Say cheese, Mom!"
photo taken by Annalie, age 5

Annalie had the first turn with the camera, after she finished her popsicle. She took pictures of some golden irises, one pink flower in a sea of green leaves, an interesting gate with a cactus, a tree, a laundromat sign, our elongated shadows in a deserted parking lot, and me.

your wate and fate

I know my kid has been taking photos since she was two years old. I know, from all the fun drawings she’s been producing lately and some of the pottery she’s painted, that she’s developing a bit of an artistic flair. I know that my fancy-schmancy DSLR camera will make even mundane photos look special. Still, when I got home and uploaded the photos she had taken on our walk I was surprised at how good some of them were. Gone are the days when she took 20 blurry photos of the carpet. Last night she chose her subjects carefully and took her time framing each shot, zooming in and out till she had the picture she wanted. And did I mention that when she was done taking a photo, she turned the camera off every single time? I don’t even remember to do that every single time.

Charles Apts

Annalie handed the camera over to me about halfway through our walk, saying her neck was tired. I was happy to take a few photos of my own. I’ve always liked this apartment sign.

sunset-bright bougainvillea

We walked past a fence covered in bougainvillea just as the setting sun was hitting it, making the bright pink bracts glow. (Today’s botany lesson: a bract is a kind of specialized leaf that usually surrounds a flower, often brightly-colored to attracts insects who will pollinate the plants. The poinsettia and bougainvillea are both examples of plants that have small flowers surrounded by brightly-colored bracts.)

X marks the spot

For some reason, Annalie walked along this strip of sandy soil, drawing a big X every foot or so with a stick she’d found. I asked her why she was doing it but I don’t think she explained. She just waved me off and kept drawing Xs.

broken sprinkler

As Annalie finished up marking the spots with Xs, we heard what sounded like a fountain being turned on. It was actually a broken sprinkler head in someone’s yard, shooting water six or seven feet into the air. Annalie thought that was pretty funny. I hope they’re aware of the broken sprinkler head, or they’re going to get a nasty surprise in their next water bill.

curb water is good for splashing

Annalie started stomping and jumping in the water that was running down the curb. I told her to stop, and she said, “Awww, why?” I started to say something about getting her sandals all wet, and then paused, remembering how when I was a kid we used to love it when someone who lived up the hill from us washed a car so we could stomp in the water and send paper boats floating down the river. So I told her never mind, splash away.

our gate

Sometimes, not getting your shoes wet isn’t a good enough reason to stay out of the river. Sometimes you worry that your child might be careless with your expensive camera but let her use it anyway. Sometimes a looming bedtime and distracted mom aren’t good enough reasons to not take a walk in the golden evening.

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17 Responses to “an evening photowalk with my girl”

  1. SAJ says:

    Amen! Beautiful!

  2. Kuky says:

    That was a lovely post. Makes me want to take a walk with Isabelle except it’s 3:30 in the morning and she’s sleeping. :)

  3. Tracy says:

    I love how you stopped your no’s so Annalie could just be. It is so hard to do. I love how you’re encouraging her enthusiasm. Your attitude is so infectious. Thanks for sharing.

  4. Shelly says:

    What a great post! Annalie is such an amazing little girl. Her photo’s are excellent. She looks adorable in her skirt and sandals too! :)

  5. Mim says:

    Lovely post and I concur that Annalie is a budding photographer! Her pictures are quite nice.

  6. Melissa says:

    Annalie’s photography is quite impressive. Glad you threw caution to the wind. What a cool mom you are!

  7. Mrs. Wilson says:

    Wow. I love this post. Great photography, both of you! I have to say yes sometimes when I usually say no – it might lead to some great adventures, and some great splashing!

  8. I loved Brenda’s epic walk post and I love that you and Annalie went exploring, even when you initially didn’t want to.

    And before I had even read your paragraph about Annalie being such a thoughtful and careful photographer, I was amazed just noticing the captions. She really did a good job! That’s so cool!

  9. Bex says:

    I was totally shocked to learn that the pictures at the beginning were Annalie’s and not yours! She’s definitely going to be an artist of some sort. I don’t know of any kids aside from my sister who had that kind of artistic eye at her age! Fantastic!

    Also, this post was wonderful and it made me smile. I’m so glad y’all had a fun, random little walk around the neighborhood.

  10. Emily says:

    You made the right choice going out for a walk, it looks like it was a truly gorgeous evening. Great pictures, not only capturing the moment but so composed they should printed and framed to enjoy.

  11. Britt says:

    Congratulations! You did what I tell myself to do but somehow fail to way too often. Well done.

    And double congratulations for savoring it. Without your well-written words, the night would have been another blur of “She was fun at that age” in a year or so.

  12. jastereo says:

    Second what Britt said… so glad you captured it. It was funny, you had me at “It was almost sunset”, absolute best picture time! Great pics from you both too, you know I like a good photowalk.

  13. jen says:

    i love that post. Annalie is an awesome kid!

  14. Sarah says:

    What a great way for you both to end the day. And thanks for the bract lesson – very interesting!

  15. BeachMama says:

    I think this is one of my favourite posts. I have done the same thing a couple of times and it is always worth it in the end.

  16. Katie says:

    Thanks for the reminder. :)

  17. lynne says:

    Beautiful post. I hope when I am a mom I remember to say yes to magical walks at sundown and not say no.