Anna and me

three on the beach Annalie and J

After a busy day full of teaching dottery class and attending birthday parties, we hopped in the minivan and drove to Delaware, to the beach-town cottage where Anna and her family had just arrived the day before. We got there late, but Anna was kind enough to stay up and let us in before stumbling off to bed. We followed her example and went right to sleep, expecting all the kids to be up bright and early the next morning.

sister and brother Annalie & J

All three kids were kind enough to sleep in the next morning, not getting us up till after 7am. We ate cereal and pastries for breakfast and drank our coffee in a leisurely fashion while the kids played. Then we suited up and sunblocked everyone and headed for the beach!

M and Apple contemplating

Apple and Annalie taking a break

kids in the surf

It was so much fun! Since Annalie has lost her fear of the ocean, she loves the beach. And with so many adults there, she was able to play in the water as much as she wanted, only taking occasional breaks to play in the sand or have a drink. She had an enthusiastic water buddy in Anna’s son, J. They had a blast chasing the waves and each other around the beach.

my beach girl and me

beach joy Dads are great at the beach

But the best water buddy of all for Annalie was Troy. Dads are great when it comes to big waves that threaten to knock you down. They either grab your hand and haul you up quickly, sputtering and wiping salt from your eyes, or they just pick you up and swing you above the wave! Annalie loved doing both. I was kind of amazed at how many times she was knocked onto her knees or butt by a wave, yet came up laughing.

Annalie and Troy in a funny hat?

After a few hours in the sun and water, we were all hungry. Anna’s husband M and Troy, with Apple* tagging along, walked to a nearby pizza place and came back with some delicious pizzas that we devoured and two huge insulated jugs of soda plastered with the restaurant logo. Those cups kept tripping me out, because to me the logo seemed similar to an old logo for my favorite hometown pizza place. I’d see them out of the corner of my eye and be startled for a second before realizing it was a different logo entirely. Funny how that can happen.

*In case you’re wondering, Apple is not Anna’s daughter’s real name. It’s her blog name.

beach scene

After lunch the kids went back in the water with the dads for a little while, but soon we were all ready to go home and cool off. So we packed up and made the short walk back to the cottage, where we enjoyed using the outdoor shower.

Oh Father, I simply cannot bear it. housepainting is good background for pottery painting

After everyone was cleaned up, M and Apple laid down for a nap. We got the big kids set up for some quiet time watching movies with the portable DVD player in the bedroom. Troy found something to watch on TV. And Anna and I decided, naturally, to go paint some pottery.

There happens to be a cool little craft studio on the main street of Anna’s beach town, and she’d been walking by and peeking in the windows for years, but had never gone inside. So we changed that! Anna had never painted pottery before, but she’d been painting houses for years, thanks to working for her dad, so she was a natural at pottery-painting.

a star for Mel and a bowl for Sonja

I dotteried two little things, a star magnet for Melissa and a green bowl for Sonja. I was happy to find two little things to paint, because this particular place had a per-hour studio fee. I understood why—they’re on the beach, they probably have lots of tourists as customers and need to keep things flowing; and they guarantee your pieces will be fired by the next day, which of course means the fee will be higher than usual—but I still didn’t want to have to pay for more than an hour of painting! Also, we didn’t want to be gone all afternoon and leave Troy and M outnumbered by tired and hungry kids. So we painted, chatted, laughed, and walked back home.

On the way home from the craft studio, something funny happened: I was spotted in the wild by a blog reader! I didn’t know about it till we were back at home and she left a comment on a blog post. She wasn’t entirely sure it was me because Annalie wasn’t with me, I was in the wrong town, and she was a bit shy of saying hello to a total stranger. I emailed back in reply to her comment, saying I completely understood why she hadn’t said anything to me, but that I wished she had, that it would have been a hoot to have a blog reader recognize me on the street. I asked where she had seen me, exactly, and she emailed me back to tell me that she saw me on this street at that time by such-and-such building, and as it happened I remembered seeing her too! Crazy! For future reference, if any of you normal, friendly, non-stalker blog readers happen to pass me somewhere on the street, please feel free to stop me and say hello. I promise I don’t bite and I’ll even say hello back.

tired after a long day J and some play-dough
Photo by i am BeachMama

After our unknowing encounter with Miss Virginia, Anna and I continued home where we found hungry people waiting for us. We walked to a fun Italian place, where Annalie and J made good use of the play-dough I keep stashed in my purse for entertaining bored kids at restaurants while we’re waiting for food. Some of the TVs in the restaurant were showing an episode of Amen, which amused me greatly. I had completely forgotten about that late-80s show, both that it existed and that I ever watched it. But even without being able to hear the sound, I could hear the theme song in my head as the credits played.

We ate the delicious food, we walked back to the cottage, we packed up, we hugged our hosts good-bye and thanked them profusely for letting us crash their beach vacation. Then we headed home after a long, delightful weekend so we could start doing laundry and packing for our trip to Omaha later that week. We just don’t know how to stay in one place, do we?

Chesapeake Bay Bridge

13 Responses to “at the beach with BeachMama”

  1. Awesomeness all around!! And so weird to be spotted!

  2. Sarah says:

    I love that photo of Troy lifting Annalie above the big wave. In a box somewhere there’s a slide of me about to be enveloped by a wave as I’m bent over, busy with my sandcastle.
    Oh, all these blogs from friends writing about beach days are making me hanker so for sand!

  3. Kandi says:

    I love the beach! Looks like you guys had a lot of fun on your short trip. I was in Bethany Beach last month. I can’t wait to get back to the beach this summer.
    I’ll keep it in mind to say hi if I ever see you in DC. :)

  4. Sonja says:

    Annalie is at the perfect beach-playing age… I remember having THE best time at the beach with my dad during those years.
    Oh, and thanks for my bowl. I’m so excited to add another original piece of Bethany Dottery to my collection. :)

  5. Mim says:

    What a great mini-vacation! Love the pictures. I especially love the arms-length of you and Annalie.

  6. BeachMama says:

    What a fabulous post Bethany! You captured the day so well. It seems like yesterday yet it was almost two weeks ago. We only have a couple of days left of our vacation, so sad yet we are so refreshed. We already know that we will never be able to go back to just one week again. I look forward to the next time you get to join us on vacation!

  7. JennyBean says:

    Looks like such a lovely weekend! I love those pics of Troy and Annalie…especially the one where Troy is wearing an umbrella for a hat. ;) And I do believe that you, madam, are GLOWING. I wonder why?… ;)

    All this dottery looks like so much fun. I wish I had a pottery studio nearby. Alas, I don’t think they’ve really caught on in South Africa yet, because I’ve never seen one. Shall have to leave it for my next visit to the USA…

  8. JennyBean says:

    Sorry to comment twice but I’m excited: I found one!

    http://www.capetownmagazine.com/news/Show-me-the-Way-to-Clay-Caf/10_22_17210

    woop woop! Now I really need that online dottery tutorial. :)

  9. Kuky says:

    I so long for beach time whenever I see beach pictures. But the close by beaches, an hour, are always rocky and cold.

    So funny, your term spotted in the wild made my mind wander to nature programming narrator talking about the elusive Bethany rarely seen in this part of the world…or something like that. :)

    And what a great idea the play dough in your purse. I’ll have to try to remember to do that.

  10. mamalang says:

    I’m really still bummed I didn’t get down there in time. But I did get to spend some great time with Beachmama and her family the next week. One day soon we’ll meet up again :)

  11. KarenG says:

    Once again you hit on one of my son’s favorite food places! We were just at the beach a week ago, and he insisted we have Grotto Pizza for his birthday dinner. Had to drive from our MD beach into DE to get it for him!

    If I ever see you, I will definitely say hi!

  12. flyingbird says:

    what sunscreen do you use with Annalie? my little cousin has the same pale skin that we’d like to keep protected…

  13. Miss Virginia says:

    I can’t stop kicking myself for not saying hello! That would have been so much fun. What’s even funnier, is in the picture you have of the beach w/ all the umbrellas, our umbrella’s are the 2 yellow ones to the right of the life guard stand…maybe we were sitting right next to you guys the whole time! so crazy!