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		<title>crocheted ketchup*</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[How is it possible that I haven&#8217;t blogged any crocheting since October!? Oh, wait&#8230;I guess I did blog about some cup sleeves and crocheted golden snitches back at the end of February. But still! The lack of blogging about it certainly does not indicate a lack of crocheting. Let me show you. This rainbow blanket [...]]]></description>
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<p>How is it possible that I haven&#8217;t blogged any crocheting since <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/balls-butterflies-blankets-blah-blah-blah/">October</a>!? Oh, wait&#8230;I guess I did blog about some cup sleeves and <a href="http://www.innerchildcrochet.com/patterns/the_golden_snitch.php">crocheted golden snitches</a> back at the end of <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/life-the-universe-and-everything-plus-a-sleeping-baby/">February</a>. But still! The lack of blogging about it certainly does not indicate a lack of crocheting. Let me show you.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6920556246/" title="grinning poser by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7261/6920556246_de4199bce4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="grinning poser"></a></p>
<p>This rainbow blanket is one of the most recent things I&#8217;ve crocheted, and I love it. It&#8217;s probably one of my favorite things I&#8217;ve ever crocheted. It was made it for my friend <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/tragic/">Joanna</a>&#8216;s sweet baby boy, but Elliora tried claiming it as her own. First she came over and plopped down on the blanket when I was trying to take photos. (That was only two months ago. Now she runs if I point a camera at her; forget her voluntarily inserting herself in a photo she wasn&#8217;t asked to pose for in the first place.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7066635883/" title="&quot;I'll just take this blanket over here now...kthxbai! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5461/7066635883_9ebf0dc5f6.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="&quot;I'll just take this blanket over here now...kthxbai!"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7066635949/" title="Elliora approves of this blanket by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7043/7066635949_2b28054578.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Elliora approves of this blanket"></a></p>
<p>Then she stood, gathered the blanket into her arms, and walked off with it. She climbed into the blue chair still holding the blanket, and hugged it, grinning at me, daring me to take it away from her. The goober. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7066635621/" title="happy thing: Teddy's rainbow blanket by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7176/7066635621_15667ae578.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: Teddy's rainbow blanket"></a></p>
<p>A photo of the rainbow blanket before Elliora tried staking her claim.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6917040032/" title="sky blanket in progress by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5332/6917040032_14db55cc99.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="sky blanket in progress"></a><br />
<font size="1"><em>Photo taken two months ago. It&#8217;s bigger now, since the blanket is one-third done!</em></font></p>
<p>Have I told you all about the sky blanket I&#8217;m crocheting? You might have seen the <a href="http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/sky-scarf">sky scarf</a> on Pinterest. I liked the idea, but decided I wanted a blanket, and went with my trademark spiral squares instead of stripes. I started just after the first of the year. Each day, I look at the sky around noon (or whenever I remember; or unless it rains or snows anytime that day, in which case the day&#8217;s square is sparkly gray or sparkly white), and that evening I spend about 20 minutes crocheting one three-inch square out of the appropriate color yarn and then attach it to the blanket. I&#8217;ll end up with 360 squares arranged in 20 rows of 18, and maybe a six-round border for the last six days of the year, which will make a decent-size blanket in shades of blue, gray, and white. It&#8217;s a totally different color scheme than my usual palette of brights. I&#8217;m surprised by how much I like it and look forward to cuddling under it at the end of the year.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6904368100/" title="happy thing: late birthday gift perfect for carrying my next crochet project by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5031/6904368100_83cd267b75.jpg" width="460" height="500" alt="happy thing: late birthday gift perfect for carrying my next crochet project"></a></p>
<p>My sister-in-law Dana sent me <a href="http://www.cafepress.com/+red_keep_calm_and_carry_yarn_tote_bag,430454437">this bag</a> for my birthday. I love it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6780740609/" title="two little blankets by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7005/6780740609_e0f05bbd99.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="two little blankets"></a></p>
<p>These two little nine-patch blankets were made for our friends Lynette and Med&#8217;s twin girls. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6780740391/" title="fuchsia, green and yellow crocheted nine-patch by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7166/6780740391_3bb612ee30.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="fuchsia, green and yellow crocheted nine-patch"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6780740487/" title="purple, yellow and green crocheted nine-patch by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7031/6780740487_548cbb3aa4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="purple, yellow and green crocheted nine-patch"></a></p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t notice till after I&#8217;d started working on the purple one that the colors were very <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Orleans_Mardi_Gras#Traditional_colors">Mardi Gras</a>. Good thing Lynette and Med appreciate (and throw!) a good party.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6576102829/" title="Day 6 - ask and ye shall receive by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7158/6576102829_b21739342c.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Day 6 - ask and ye shall receive"></a></p>
<p>This photo was actually my Day 6 photo from <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/category/7-days/">7 Days</a> this past December. (You know, that 7 Days week I never finished blogging about because (1) it was Christmas, and (2) I got sick <em>on Christmas Eve</em>. Sigh.) <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sumrtime/">Summer</a> complimented a similar coffee-cup sleeve in <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/operawife/6555412307/">Mandy&#8217;s Day 2 photo</a>, so I offered to make her one.  </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6735024301/" title="stripey coffee cup sleeve by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7026/6735024301_e1511e259d.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="stripey coffee cup sleeve"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://quetaknits.com">Queta</a>, another 7-Dayer, complimented the same coffee-cup sleeve. I made one for her too. (Apparently, all it takes is a compliment and I&#8217;m falling all over myself to make you stuff.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349284613/" title="peekaboo by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6213/6349284613_84d2c3fd3a_z.jpg" width="426" height="640" alt="peekaboo"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/30579750@N04/">Erin</a> peeking over the blanket I crocheted for Indira Jane.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6350032256/" title="Indira and the blanket I crocheted for her by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6235/6350032256_fdc4338b92_z.jpg" width="426" height="640" alt="Indira and the blanket I crocheted for her"></a></p>
<p>Two-month-old Indy, sleeping under her blanket. She&#8217;s EIGHT months old now, and I have not seen her since this picture was taken. That&#8217;s so sad. Once we&#8217;re back on the west coast, I think I&#8217;m gonna be visiting Oregon a lot more often. How else are Elliora and Indy going to become best friends?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6706495489/" title="happy thing: three stripey crocheted balls by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7017/6706495489_28d1a4ef52.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: three stripey crocheted balls"></a></p>
<p>Last but not least, some yarnballs! I&#8217;ve made a bunch of crocheted balls for my friend Rebekah&#8217;s kids over the years. Her husband Jason loves them (balls you can play with relatively safely IN THE HOUSE) and periodically puts in an order for more. Not long ago I made these three for them. And I just remembered, I need to make them a few more! I should add that to my crafting queue&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6735027749/" title="crocheted stripy balls by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7166/6735027749_83fc0527b9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="crocheted stripy balls"></a></p>
<p>Mystery yarnballs! For the life of me, I cannot remember who I made these for. Was it more balls for Bekah&#8217;s kids? Did I make these for <a href="http://heymrswilson.net/">Jen</a>&#8216;s Preston? Did I perhaps make them for you? I honestly can&#8217;t recall.</p>
<p>Now if you&#8217;ll excuse me, I need to get cracking on about three baby blankets, including one for a baby who is already several months old and another one for <a href="http://girlwithgreencard.blogspot.com/">Sonja</a>&#8216;s baby who will be born <em>any minute</em> now. (ANY MINUTE, Sonja. I&#8217;m sure of it.) </p>
<p>What kinds of crafty things have you been doing lately?</p>
<p>*<em>I have never actually crocheted any ketchup. But now I kind of want to.</em></p>
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		<title>Day 7 &#8211; Au revoir, mes petites violettes!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 04:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bethany actually</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are so many violets in our backyard in the spring that it looks almost completely purple for a couple of weeks. It&#8217;s one of the reasons Elliora&#8217;s middle name is Violet, because our backyard looked like this around the time we found out we were pregnant. It was actually even more violet-covered a week [...]]]></description>
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<p>There are so many violets in our backyard in the spring that it looks almost completely purple for a couple of weeks. It&#8217;s one of the reasons Elliora&#8217;s middle name is Violet, because our backyard looked like this around the time we found out we were pregnant. It was actually even more violet-covered a week before this, believe it or not. It&#8217;s almost the end of violet season around here.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7029364137/" title="7 days alternate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6229/7029364137_2a6f5300b5.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="7 days alternate"></a></p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7029364137/in/photostream/">alternate Day 7 shot</a>. Our LED twinkle lights (they&#8217;re not Christmas lights because we keep them up year-round) cast interesting pools of light and shadow on the ceiling and walls around them. I was inspired by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bex/7016511415/in/photostream">Bex&#8217;s shot</a> of her grandparents&#8217; vintage bunch-of-grapes lamp and the cool shadows it cast.</p>
<p>Hey, look! I am actually done blogging every single one of my <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a> photos from the run that was only a couple of weeks ago! Not only that, but&#8230;I MADE IT THROUGH THE WHOLE WEEK WITHOUT GETTING SICK. IT WAS A 7 DAYS MIRACLE! *cue angelic choirs* </p>
<p>I expect to come down with the plague shortly, now that I said that. (Although I originally wrote that almost two weeks ago and I&#8217;m still not sick.) I guess there was that toothache I had that week&#8212;really that I had had on and off since around my birthday almost a month ago. It was finally resolved on Day 6 when I went to the dentist. It turned out the problem was a cavity in one of my remaining wisdom teeth. The solution was easy: pull the tooth. It was done and I was driving home less than 30 minutes later, much relieved. I don&#8217;t really count that as being sick.</p>
<p>While I&#8217;m blogging, a couple of quick things:</p>
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<li>Up until a few days ago, I was more than a month behind on uploading photos to <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/">Flickr</a>. I&#8217;m still taking photos every day, I just don&#8217;t get around to doing anything with them. I&#8217;m starting to catch up and am hoping to be caught up before I leave for Omaha. Wish me luck.</li>
<li>Instagram finally released an app for Android phones, just a few days before Facebook bought Instagram. So I&#8217;m enjoying using Instagram as a new, easy way to share photos from my phone on <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/bethanyactually">Twitter</a> and <a href="http://www.facebook.com/bethanyactually">Facebook</a>. Or you can see <a href="http://instagram.heroku.com/users/bethanyactually">my photos here</a>.</li>
<li>Elliora has a new favorite all-purpose word, suitable for all sentiments and occasions: MINE. Her dad&#8217;s laptop? &#8220;Mine!&#8221; Annalie&#8217;s jacket? &#8220;Mine!&#8221; My frosted mini-wheats? &#8220;Mine mine mine!&#8221; Lily the cat? &#8220;MIIIIIINE!&#8221;</li>
<li>We&#8217;re heading to Omaha on Friday, just me and the girls. (Poor Troy, he has to stay here and work, and have the house to himself for a week and a half.) When we come home, my mom and my niece are coming with us. They&#8217;re going to stay and visit for three whole weeks and will be here to celebrate Annalie&#8217;s eighth birthday. We&#8217;re all pretty excited about that.</li>
<li>Party plans for Annalie&#8217;s birthday were on hold for a while, because we weren&#8217;t sure if my mom was going to be able to come here, or if she&#8217;d have to stay in Omaha because of some family obligations. Now that we know, I have sorted out the party plans and I think it&#8217;s gonna be really fun. It&#8217;s a big relief to finally have a plan.</li>
<li>Chris wrote something great about <a href="http://www.beepily.com/2012/04/self-discovery-through-parenting-and-cookies/">blogging with two small children</a> that expressed <em>perfectly</em> how I feel, so I&#8217;m just going to quote her:<br />
<blockquote><p><em>Well, I’d still love to have an awesome, regularly-updated website. That endeavour is sitting on a back burner, as our time and energy are all earmarked for other stuff for a while.</p>
<p>In my mind I have an enormous stovetop with quite a lot of burners, especially at the back.</em></p></blockquote>
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<li>I started a page to keep track of all the words <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/elliora-says/">Elliora says</a>. She&#8217;s adding about three or four new ones every day. There&#8217;s a button for it over on the sidebar. &#8212;></li>
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<p>How on earth did it get to be mid-April already!?</p>
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		<title>Day 6 &#8211; a loving chalk portrait by my daughter</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 06:09:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Day 6 of 7 Days, I asked Annalie to go outside on the deck and play with Elliora for a bit while I cleaned up the kitchen. She didn&#8217;t really want to, but she did it anyway, wrapping up in her blanket and grouching her way out there. Despite her reluctance, I thanked her [...]]]></description>
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<p>On Day 6 of <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a>, I asked Annalie to go outside on the deck and play with Elliora for a bit while I cleaned up the kitchen. She didn&#8217;t really want to, but she did it anyway, wrapping up in her blanket and grouching her way out there. Despite her reluctance, I thanked her politely. (I&#8217;d gotten my way, after all, which makes it easier to be polite!)</p>
<p>I saw her pick up a piece of sidewalk chalk and brightly suggested I could give her some sentences to write for handwriting practice. &#8220;How about, &#8216;My mom is awesome&#8217;? Or maybe &#8216;I love my mom! She&#8217;s the best ever!&#8217;&#8221; </p>
<p>Annalie gave me a dirty look and said, &#8220;How do you spell &#8216;stupid&#8217;? I laughed, said she could figure that one out on her own, and went back to cleaning the kitchen.</p>
<p>A few minutes later, Annalie called out, &#8220;Mom, can you please come and see what I drew?&#8221; I went out on the deck to see her sitting next to this drawing, fighting a grin.</p>
<p>She drew me scolding her, and herself imagining blowing a raspberry at me. See the little tongue in the thought bubble? I cracked up and told her that was very smart, because blowing raspberries in her head is much less likely to get her into trouble than doing it in someone&#8217;s face. She laughed, all hostility gone. </p>
<p>I love that Annalie can pour her anger or frustration into creating something&#8211;a drawing, a dance, a puppet show&#8211;and the negative feelings seem to evaporate in the process, leaving only the art.</p>
<p>Then, even though I had another idea planned for that day&#8217;s photo, I took a picture of the drawing and all our feet for my 7 Days self-portrait. How could I not?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7059652953/" title="stinkers by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5443/7059652953_d652b2f503_z.jpg" width="426" height="640" alt="stinkers"></a></p>
<p>These two. They&#8217;re such stinkers sometimes, but they make life so very fun.</p>
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		<title>Day 5 &#8211; reFRESH</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 03:09:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bethany actually</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Not my 7 Days photo. It&#8217;s at the bottom.) Last week, we made an impromptu trip down to Southern Virgina to see Karyl and her girls. Karyl and I are both Navy wives. We&#8217;re accustomed to our husbands being gone for weeks or months at a time, and working long hours when they&#8217;re not gone. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873563/" title="Karyl and Bethany by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7130/7025873563_aa5601fcb8.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Karyl and Bethany"></a><br />
<em><font size="1">(Not my 7 Days photo. It&#8217;s at the bottom.)</font></em></p>
<p>Last week, we made an impromptu trip down to Southern Virgina to see <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluesleepy/">Karyl</a> and her girls. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873307/" title="buddies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7256/7025873307_8bb5b77e32.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="buddies"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774364/" title="crazy jumping by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7100/6879774364_55e7d06d9a.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="crazy jumping"></a></p>
<p>Karyl and I are both Navy wives. We&#8217;re accustomed to our husbands being gone for weeks or months at a time, and working long hours when they&#8217;re not gone. Most of the time, we deal with it just fine. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873531/" title="pink crew by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7233/7025873531_390e6b070b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="pink crew"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873259/" title="Elliora and Storm by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7231/7025873259_f24b56af39.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Elliora and Storm"></a></p>
<p>Once in a while, we struggle. It just happens that last week, we were both struggling a little bit. That made it seem like the perfect time for a <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays">7 Days</a> meet-up. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774236/" title="trying out the balance bike by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7087/6879774236_f58fdc6e54.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="trying out the balance bike"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774518/" title="spotting airplanes by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7245/6879774518_b781226970.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="spotting airplanes"></a> </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774116/" title="Elliora cheesing by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7209/6879774116_1b3cc25dc3.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Elliora cheesing"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873743/" title="ME swinging by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7225/7025873743_46e8892f7a.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="ME swinging"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873615/" title="tunnel by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7080/7025873615_a9edf3c678.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="tunnel"></a></p>
<p>And you know what? It was. We arrived on Tuesday and had a great time hanging out, eating good food, playing outside, talking and laughing together. Grace and Annalie immediately jumped right back into the friendship they established when Karyl and her girls visited us last summer, when Sonja and Noah were visiting. And Mary Ellen <em>loved</em> Elliora. She seemed to think she was a living doll, and Elliora didn&#8217;t seem to mind that at all. Anytime we walked anywhere, Elliora walked straight to ME and grabbed her hand.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873779/" title="this hummus is finger-lickin' good by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7109/7025873779_608ee03f3d.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="this hummus is finger-lickin' good"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873929/" title="fishy faces by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7105/7025873929_3059079d7f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="fishy faces"></a></p>
<p>I dragged everyone all the way to Virginia Beach, to my favorite Greek restaurant, <a href="http://www.urbanspoon.com/r/35/1477840/restaurant/Hampton-Roads/Pembroke/Elias-Cafe-Virginia-Beach">Elia&#8217;s</a>. The hummus and pita there are to die for, and the rest of the food is delicious too. We were regulars at Elia&#8217;s when we lived in Virginia Beach over a decade ago, and just like every other time we&#8217;ve been there since we moved away&#8212;even when years have gone by between visits&#8212;Elia remembered us as soon as we walked in the door. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025873843/" title="eating a lemon by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7244/7025873843_98d07326b8.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="eating a lemon"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774624/" title="peeking into the kitchen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7213/6879774624_cbbbfde8f7.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="peeking into the kitchen"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774754/" title="gnawing on a chicken kabob by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7108/6879774754_13170c7a86.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="gnawing on a chicken kabob"></a></p>
<p>We sat in a booth right next to a high wall. On the other side of that wall was the grill, and Annalie and Grace amused themselves by occasionally standing on the seat and peeking over to chat with Elia and the other people working that day, all of whom seemed to get a kick out of it. Everyone enjoyed the food, especially Elliora. She took bites out of a lemon, rind and all; ate the hummus by the fingerful after we ran out of pita; and gnawed a kabob full of chicken clean. Annalie even branched out from her usual chicken nuggets, and thought the chicken kabobs and rice were really tasty. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774294/" title="Miss Grace by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7236/6879774294_db5500d650.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Miss Grace"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774916/" title="ME and EV by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7195/6879774916_c0ddc1866b_z.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="ME and EV"></a> </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7025874029/" title="braids by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7239/7025874029_5078d8af32.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="braids"></a></p>
<p>The next morning, we all walked Grace to school and got to see her classroom and meet her lovely teacher. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774972/" title="happy thing: rock of love by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7246/6879774972_379bb0b4df_z.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: rock of love"></a></p>
<p>Walking back to Karyl&#8217;s, I spotted this heart-shaped rock in the dirt path. I love finding random hearts in the world like this.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879774998/" title="this photo is staged by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7235/6879774998_4951a281b8_z.jpg" width="426" height="640" alt="this photo is staged"></a></p>
<p>We stopped at the playground to let the kids blow off some steam, and so we could get our <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a> shots.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6879775078/" title="Day 5 - reFRESH by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7232/6879775078_749f92cd37_z.jpg" width="479" height="640" alt="Day 5 - reFRESH"></a></p>
<p>The theme for Day 5 was FRESH. Karyl&#8217;s had the idea that we could be getting some <em>fresh air</em>, which we certainly got playing on the swings. But even more than the air, the time spent with a friend refreshed me. Thanks again, Karyl!  We went home with lighter hearts, already looking forward to the next visit.</p>
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		<title>Day 4 &#8211; Howdy, neighbor!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2012 13:14:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Isn&#8217;t it amazing how the internet makes neighbors and friends of people who live across the globe from each other? Lauren and I had a bit of fun with our Day 4 photos, uploaded as she was getting ready for bed in Australia and I was waking up and having breakfast in the U.S. (When [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6874475222/" title="Day 4 - Howdy, neighbor! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7061/6874475222_2fc4b1da49.jpg" width="281" height="214" alt="Day 4 - Howdy, neighbor!"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/out-of-my-mind/6874472224/" title="4 of 7 :: Howdy neighbour! by *Out of my Mind*, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7111/6874472224_80bb7b8a82_b.jpg" width="214" height="214" alt="4 of 7 :: Howdy neighbour!"></a></p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t it amazing how the internet makes neighbors and friends of people who live across the globe from each other? <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/out-of-my-mind/with/6874472224/">Lauren</a> and I had a bit of fun with our Day 4 photos, uploaded as she was getting ready for bed in Australia and I was waking up and having breakfast in the U.S. (When my photo is viewed <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6874475222/in/pool-78022008@N00/"> here in the 7 Days pool</a> [look to the thumbnails at the right] we are waving at each other.) </p>
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		<title>Day 3 &#8211; Look, a rainbow!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 03:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re in the U.S. and you&#8217;ve been to a Target store recently, you might recognize the rainbow in my 7 Days photo. I wish I&#8217;d taken a picture of it from another perspective, but I was in a hurry to get Elliora home because it was past her naptime and she was getting very [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/7019837507/" title="Day 3 - Look, a rainbow! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7112/7019837507_ee7db86e73.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="Day 3 - Look, a rainbow!"></a></p>
<p>If you&#8217;re in the U.S. and you&#8217;ve been to a Target store recently, you might recognize the rainbow in my <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a> photo. I wish I&#8217;d taken a picture of it from another perspective, but I was in a hurry to get Elliora home because it was past her naptime and she was getting very crabby, so I just grabbed this shot very quickly on our way out. It&#8217;s a big mobile, for lack of a better word, of strips of colored cardboard in a wave pattern, hanging from the ceiling just inside the entrance.</p>
<p>Coincidentally, I&#8217;m doing a <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/i-interviewed-author-rainbow-rowell-and-now-im-giving-away-a-copy-of-her-book-attachments/">book giveaway</a> right now for my friend <i>Rainbow</i>&#8216;s first book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Attachments-Rainbow-Rowell/dp/0525951989/" rel="nofollow">Attachments</a>. (See what I did there?) There&#8217;s also a review of the book and an interview. <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/i-interviewed-author-rainbow-rowell-and-now-im-giving-away-a-copy-of-her-book-attachments/">Go check it out</a> and leave a comment to win a copy of the book!</p>
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		<title>Day 2 &#8211; starlight*</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Mar 2012 21:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since the 7 Days theme for Day 2 is LIGHT, I decided to play with the Color Flashlight app on my phone. It does all kinds of trippy things like strobe light, police light, disco, even a photo of a flickering lighter for holding up at concerts. For this photo, I used the rainbow effect [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6869020438/" title="Day 2 - starlight by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6111/6869020438_890524d679.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="Day 2 - starlight"></a></p>
<p>Since the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a> theme for Day 2 is LIGHT, I decided to play with the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Social-Mobile-Inc-Color-Flashlight/dp/B004DM0X9O" rel="nofollow">Color Flashlight app</a> on my phone. It does all kinds of trippy things like strobe light, police light, disco, even a photo of a flickering lighter for holding up at concerts. For this photo, I used the rainbow effect and a slow shutter speed. I drew a star because stars are one of my favorite things to doodle, in any medium.</p>
<p>You can just see that I&#8217;m wearing my <a href="http://www.teefury.com/archive/1383/Whovian/">TeeFury WHOVIAN t-shirt</a>. That&#8217;s the one that I accidentally ordered two of, thanks to a glitch with the first order. Rather than returning it, I decided that was the universe&#8217;s way of telling me that it wanted <a href="http://zebrabelly.wordpress.com/">Bonnie</a> to have a WHOVIAN t-shirt, too. And she wore it to Disneyland <a href="zebrabelly.wordpress.com/2012/02/03/thirty-four/">on her birthday</a> and it got her a free extra ride on Star Tours thanks to the Time Lord in disguise who was working there.</p>
<p>Can anyone tell where in my house I&#8217;m sitting? Clues: this location has featured in one of <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/annalie2004">Annalie&#8217;s</a> 7 Days photos before. It&#8217;s one of the darkest spots in our house during daytime, and a rather unique thing to find in a residential home.</p>
<p>*Suggested music for reading this post: &#8220;Starlight&#8221; by Muse. Coincidentally, Bonnie introduced me to this song when she gave me a mix CD a while back. This has been a very Bonnie-tastic post.</p>
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		<title>Day 1 &#8211; Nerrrrrrrd</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Mar 2012 06:51:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s 7 Days time again! That quarterly time of year when a group of some of the funnest, nicest, most creative people on Flickr spend a week taking self-portraits and then commenting on each other&#8217;s photos. I was on my way to bed when I realized it was technically Saturday and I could take my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6864202390/" title="Day 1 - Nerrrrrrrd by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7228/6864202390_8bd79d2792.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="Day 1 - Nerrrrrrrd"></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a> time again! That quarterly time of year when a group of some of the funnest, nicest, most creative people on Flickr spend a week taking self-portraits and then commenting on each other&#8217;s photos. I was on my way to bed when I realized it was technically Saturday and I could take my Day 1 photo. Here it is: me, being a big ol&#8217; <a href="http://www.thenerdmachine.com/">nerd</a> with Photo Booth in the dark dining room at 2am.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6864202380/" title="7 Days alternate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7054/6864202380_4cc9864fec.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="7 Days alternate"></a></p>
<p>I took this shot first, but decided it was too creepy for Day 1, even though it made me laugh.</p>
<p>On a side note, it&#8217;s come to my attention that I have not been keeping very good track of the various dottery mugs and crocheted whatsits that I&#8217;ve promised people. If you&#8217;ve discussed a custom order of some kind with me but have not heard a peep from me about it since, could you check my crafting <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/queue/">queue</a> and see if you&#8217;re on it? If you&#8217;re not, please shoot me an email or leave me a comment, letting me know.  Thanks.</p>
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		<title>Day 2 &#8211; Raise your, uh, mug of hot CHOCOLATE in honor of That Pottery Place</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2011 06:20:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, that&#8217;s a stretch. I&#8217;m basically ignoring the chocolate theme today, but this seemed more important. My favorite local pottery-painting studio, the one where I first painted six years ago, the one where dottery was born with this plate, is closing. The owner doesn&#8217;t really want to close, but for various reasons (including her two [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6557695681/" title="Day 2 - Raise your, uh, mug of hot CHOCOLATE in honor of That Pottery Place by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7029/6557695681_8f7c720bbc.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="Day 2 - Raise your, uh, mug of hot CHOCOLATE in honor of That Pottery Place"></a></p>
<p>Okay, that&#8217;s a stretch. I&#8217;m basically ignoring the chocolate theme today, but this seemed more important. My favorite local pottery-painting studio, the one where I first painted six years ago, the one where <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157604438260497/with/6519829315/">dottery</a> was born with <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/2408975073/in/set-72157604438260497/">this plate</a>, is closing. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6557695757/" title="Anna and me by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7029/6557695757_405345d202.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="Anna and me"></a></p>
<p>The owner doesn&#8217;t really want to close, but for various reasons (including her two young kids and the depressed economy) it&#8217;s the best thing for her to do right now. She&#8217;s still hoping that someone might buy the studio from her and re-open it, particularly because it&#8217;s the only pottery-painting studio in the area. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6557695503/" title="Annalie painting by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7017/6557695503_d9198fa7ec.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="Annalie painting"></a></p>
<p>Today was the last day to paint. So we went and painted one last time. *sniff*</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6557695607/" title="Elliora's snowflake and palette by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7161/6557695607_e6d60b2722.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="Elliora's snowflake and palette"></a></p>
<p>I thought it would be cool to have Elliora paint an ornament. I let her pick the paint colors and choose which ornament. Following her big sister&#8217;s example, she already has very definite, clear opinions about what she wants. (I don&#8217;t have a picture of E painting because I was too busy making sure she didn&#8217;t grab the ornament or palette and throw them onto the floor while simultaneously preventing her from smearing her painty hands all over her clothes, the table, the high chair&#8230;)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6557695841/" title="Kadelin with Elliora and Annalie by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7166/6557695841_d4d19514ca.jpg" width="375" height="500" alt="Kadelin with Elliora and Annalie"></a></p>
<p>We sure will miss this place. I hope someone buys it soon and re-opens it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/annalie2004/6557543899/" title="Day 2 - chocolate! by annalie actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7026/6557543899_325176e4df.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="Day 2 - chocolate!"></a></p>
<p>For her photo today, Annalie posed in front of our Christmas tree with a chocolate-filled Advent calendar:</p>
<blockquote><p>My mom let me eat the rest of the chocolate from Elliora&#8217;s Advent calendar to take my self-portrait. She doesn&#8217;t really eat the chocolate, anyway. She just gets a tiny bite and my mom and I eat the rest.</p></blockquote>
<p>You know that <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/life-overload/">life overload</a> I wrote about a few days ago? All of those things are still true, but I&#8217;m feeling better about it all. I don&#8217;t know why, exactly. Maybe partly because Elliora likes to accessorize, which is adorable:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6557695865/" title="headbands are her accessory of choice by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7033/6557695865_49c6bb423b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="headbands are her accessory of choice"></a></p>
<p>Elliora loves headbands for some reason. She&#8217;s forever picking up ones that Annalie has discarded around the house and attempting to put them on, usually just setting them on top of her head tiara-style. Today Annalie and I were both in the kitchen when Elliora came crawling in from the living room with this headband in place on her head. I asked Annalie if she&#8217;d helped her put it on, and Annalie said, &#8220;No, I was in here with you!&#8221; I guess that means Elliora managed to get it on all by herself. Not bad for a 1-year-old.</p>
<p>Also, I had a headache for three days on and off thanks to storms that were near us. Yesterday it finally rained here, and with the rain came relief from the headaches. And pretty Christmas-light reflections.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6557695917/" title="lights on our deck reflected in the rain by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7153/6557695917_3cb50f353b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="lights on our deck reflected in the rain"></a></p>
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		<title>Day 1 &#8211; shiny ornament outside Trader Joe&#8217;s</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Helloooo! I think this is the first time in a year I&#8217;m genuinely excited about 7 Days. And (touch/knock on wood) it&#8217;s December and I&#8217;m not sick. It&#8217;s probably because I caved and got a flu shot this year. I was so sick all last fall and winter, and I didn&#8217;t want to repeat that. [...]]]></description>
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<p>Helloooo! I think this is the first time in a year I&#8217;m genuinely excited about <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a>. And (touch/knock on wood) it&#8217;s December and <em>I&#8217;m not sick.</em> It&#8217;s probably because I caved and got a flu shot this year. I was so sick all last fall and winter, and I didn&#8217;t want to repeat that.</p>
<p>So. Let&#8217;s do this thing!</p>
<p>I saw these jumbo ornaments hanging outside Trader Joe&#8217;s last week and instantly made a mental note to use them for a self-portrait. It was rather windy so it was tricky to get a shot that wasn&#8217;t blurry. But I persevered.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/annalie2004/6549666519/" title="Day 1 - secret surprise by annalie actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7148/6549666519_9af8d7f077.jpg" width="375" height="500" alt="Day 1 - secret surprise"></a></p>
<p>What Annalie had to say about her Day 1 photo, &#8220;secret surprise&#8221;:</p>
<blockquote><p>Some of you looking at this photo are going to get a special surprise from us in the mail, so I can&#8217;t tell you what I&#8217;m mailing. But have you ever seen anybody mail a jar before? We mailed <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642783140/in/photostream/">Easter eggs</a> once, and my mom mailed a small package of <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6519830205/in/set-72157627956121556">jelly beans</a>!</p></blockquote>
<p>See the series <a href="http://www.giverslog.com/?tag=happy-mail">13 ounces or less</a> at <a href="http://www.giverslog.com/">giverslog</a> for more about this. I&#8217;ll blog the jars eventually, once they&#8217;ve reached their recipients.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6549710521/" title="cheesing up at Mama from the grass by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7165/6549710521_6905fc4447.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="cheesing up at Mama from the grass"></a></p>
<p>This morning we went to the post office and the grocery store. We&#8217;ve been spending quite a few mornings running errands lately, doing Christmas-related things. Elliora and Annalie have both been troupers, taking multiple trips to the grocery store, post office, and Target in stride, with only the rare hunger- or exhaustion-induced tantrum. Now that Elliora is older and walking, she and Annalie have a lot of fun with each other and keeping each other entertained during otherwise dull moments. Apparently having a sister is awesome.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6550238023/" title="morning sisters by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7145/6550238023_057e0bd3a2.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="morning sisters"></a></p>
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