October 25th, 2014
I’ve been wanting to dye my hair blue or purple for a long, long time. And I finally did! I’m kind of wishing now that I’d done this a year ago, when my hair was shorter, because it’s tricky with hair this long. I got dye all over myself, as you can see in the third photo below. And wow, I had to use a LOT of dye to cover all my hair. Here’s a quick rundown of what I did, for anyone who’s curious:
- Read thedaintysquid’s hair-dyeing tutorial and tips for maintaining bright haircolor about ten times each.
- Pestered my friends with hair-dyeing experience for advice and encouragement. (You know who you are. <3)
- Gathered the various dyes I’d purchased/been given, along with the cheap hair dyeing kit I’d bought off amazon, a couple of cheap disposable shower caps, and a few old towels.
- Said goodbye to my blonde hair.
- Put a thin layer of petroleum jelly along my hairline on my forehead and on the tops of my ears. Next time I’ll probably put petroleum jelly all the way around my hairline, and possibly on the back and sides of my neck, too. (Though I didn’t actually have any trouble getting the dye off my face and neck. Immediately after my hair was up in the shower cap and towel, I used olive oil on a cotton ball and it wiped right off, except for a largeish patch on the side of my neck, which still faded considerably.)
- Decided to use a mix of the raspberry color (a brand I wasn’t familiar with–that was one of the gifts) with two of the Punky Colours, violet and plum, in layers. Various sources informed me that mixing two different colors of dye, especially different brands, leads to a more interesting fade. (I underestimated how much dye I’d need for my long, fairly thick hair and wound up mixing the dye in three batches. I think by the time I was done, I used the equivalent of 1 entire pot of Punky Colour, and half the bottle of the raspberry dye.)
- Each batch of dye I mixed, I used about 1 part conditioner (just what I had on hand, which happened to be OGX Nourishing Coconut Milk) to three parts dye–and of that three parts, one part was raspberry and two parts were either plum or violet.
- Note that I chose NOT to bleach my hair. I have naturally blonde hair with some gray mixed in, and after doing some research decided I’d try dyeing over my natural color this time, just to see how it worked. I figured even if it didn’t work as well as I wanted it to, I’d still have purpleish hair.
- I started at the bottom of my head, pinning the rest of my hair up with clips, and just grabbed the dye with my gloved hands and slathered it on, working it in as best I could to make sure all the hairs were saturated.
- When that was done, I sort of tied the bottom portion into a loose knot, then repeated the pinning-slathering-saturating for two more sections till all my hair was done. And I did one streak of just raspberry with foil, just to see what would happen. The directions all cautioned against getting the dye on my scalp, but the tutorials I read all said it was no big deal, and it would fade after a couple days if it did get on my scalp. So I made sure to really get the visible roots nice and covered.
- Once all the dye was on, I gathered all my hair onto the top of my head and clipped it up. I covered my hair with one of the cheapie shower caps, and wrapped an old towel around that. Then I used the olive oil and cotton balls to get the dye off my skin, which worked like a charm.
- Sprayed Honest Company bathroom cleaner (no bleach or anything, it’s a child- and pet-safe nontoxic hippie brand that I love) on the spots of dye in the sink, and they mostly wiped right up. The same cleaner worked on one spot of dye on the wall, but another spot will require a magic eraser sponge, probably, nbd.
- Discarded the trash, took the bowls and brushes and stuff downstairs to wash in the stainless steel sink. Didn’t use gloves for that, and my hands got tinted a leetle purple, but by the time I was done washing and rinsing everything the purple was basically gone.
- Checked my email, made dinner for the kids, gave Elliora a bath, watched TV with Annalie, made dinner for me and Troy (a two-egg version of this, which was really good), putzed around on FB for a little while. By the time I finally rinsed my hair, the dye had been on for…six hours, I think? I wasn’t planning to leave it on that long, that’s just how it happened.
- Rinsed my hair with c-c-c-cold water leaning over the side of the bathtub with our detachable showerhead. And rinsed. And rinsed. And rinsed. And rinsed. And…okay, just know that the rinsing went on for a very long time–I think I had to rinse for something like 30 minutes before the water ran completely clear. Did I mention that I have a LOT of hair? Troy helped me out for the last 15 minutes or so.
- Once the rinse water was running clear, I poured a 1:1 mix of white vinegar and cold water on my hair, making sure to saturate all of it. (The vinegar raises the pH level of the dye, giving it more permanence, and helps close the hair cuticle.)
- Tried not to panic when the vinegar rinse immediately turned purple, even though my hair had been rinsing clear 30 seconds before. Shrugged and rinsed with more cold water till it was completely clear.
- Dried my hair with another old towel, then startled myself when I looked in the mirror because, WHOA, I HAVE PURPLE HAIR.
My hair has dried a bit now, and it’s still very purple. You can just see the raspberry streak on the left. I’ll have to take a better photo in natural light tomorrow.
Next time, I think I’ll get a friend (or Troy) to help with applying the dye, because it really was tricky to get all my hair covered without also dyeing all my skin above the neck, my arms, and the bathroom. And I think another person would be helpful in making sure I get dye brushed right up to my roots all over my head, too. There are a couple of spots near my roots that I missed, but at least they’re underneath the top layer so they’re not really noticeable.
I was mostly dyeing without bleaching first as an experiment, to see how it would work. I think it worked beautifully, and I got a really deep, bright color. I keep startling myself every time I glance in a mirror, in fact, because I’m not used to having dark hair! I think I’ll actually like it better once it’s faded a bit. In the meantime, I’m gonna have to start wearing more eyeliner or something, so my face doesn’t look so pale. But overall, I’d say Operation Purple Hair 2014 was a success!
September 15th, 2014
I’ve been avoiding writing this post for almost a week. This will make it seem real.
Our cat Katy, who was staying with our good friends Erin and Rocco in Oregon while we’re in Japan, stopped eating a couple of weeks ago. Erin took her in to the vet, and they found a large cancerous tumor in her abdomen. Taking her age, health, and the fact that she hadn’t eaten in almost a week into consideration, the vet thought she wouldn’t be a good candidate for surgery, and recommended euthanasia.
Erin took Katy home. She took a few photos of her when the light was nice, and they cuddled her and loved on her and said good-bye. The next day, Rocco took her in to the vet and gave her lots of pets and chin scratches for everyone. When it was done, he took her body home and they buried her with her blanket under an apple tree on their property.
For the first time in almost 20 years, we are a catless family. We said good-bye to Katy when we left her in Oregon last April, but we honestly didn’t think we were saying good-bye to her forever. We’re all pretty sad that she’s gone, but we’re so very grateful to our friends for giving her a good home for her last few months.
Now I’m certain we made the right decision when we didn’t bring her with us to Japan, even though I would have loved to have her with us, and I’m sorry that Erin and Rocco had to deal with having her put to sleep. If we’d brought her, she would have had to deal with a long plane trip, then being quarantined at the vet’s while we were in the Navy Lodge, and then quarantined in our house for months after we got here. Since she was in Oregon, she was able to go outside and had other cats and chickens to terrorize, and Erin and Rocco’s 3-year-old daughter Indy had a cat to love on. (The other four cats all tend to run away when Indy comes at them.)
Katy, you had an incredibly yowly meow and you could be a little overwhelming in your demands for attention and you were so picky you wouldn’t even eat tuna, you weirdo. But you were the sweetest, most loving cat we ever had, and your fur was the softest, and your purr was the loudest. You always knew when someone needed a cuddle and were right there to head-butt them in love and then sit with one paw resting on their arm, like you wanted to make sure they knew you were there. Rest in peace, Kater Potater.
July 3rd, 2014
Wow, it’s been a LONG time since I’ve written here. I notice that I never quite finished posting my 7 Days photos from the last run this past December. Probably because I was in denial about the fact that it was the last 7 Days ever, *sniff*.
But I digress.
Anyway…yeah, we’re in Japan! In case you don’t follow me on FB/Instagram/Twitter and are just now hearing this news, the Navy surprised Troy with orders to Yokosuka in February. We were originally supposed to be in San Diego till September 2015, so this was a big change of plans, and–I’ll be honest–not an entirely welcome change. Not only do I love San Diego, and have lots of friends and family in SoCal, but I was looking forward to being in the same place for three whole years. And Japan isn’t a place I’ve ever had any desire to live.
That said, Annalie was immediately stoked about Japan. She’s an anime/manga fan, and already knew a bit about Japan from watching and reading several different series. Troy was excited about the job, which promised to be interesting and challenging and great in terms of his Navy career. And every single person I know who’s ever lived in Japan has LOVED it. So this change of plans to move to Japan might have been a surprise, but not a bad one. That’s life in the Navy–you learn to roll with it or you go crazy. So we roll with it, and hope for the best, and usually things work out just fine.
I’ve had many people, both online and IRL, ask me if I will start blogging again while we’re in Japan. The answer is: I hope so. I was thinking about my blog the other day, and about how grateful I am for the record of our lives over the past six years, and how I really want to keep that record going. What follows is partly cobbled together from emails I’ve written in the past few weeks, so if any of this sounds familiar to you, you’re not crazy; you probably just read one of my emails already.
First: On May 9th, Annalie turned ten years old. TEN YEARS, MAN.
1. My last day to snuggle my 9-year-old. Tomorrow she’s 10., 2. Imprompty slumber-party puppy pile while watching Pokemon., 3. Birthday pancakes and bacon!, 4. Cupcake eaters., 5. Last Friday park day. :-( It happened to be on A’s birthday, so we got to have a mini party! :-), 6. Purple dress, purple frosting., 7. Perusing the Pokemon handbook., 8. Paloma, Audie, Quora, Annalie., 9. Party favors., 10. Me, Sonja, Yara, Summer, Lisa giving Sonja bunny ears., 11. We didn’t think of taking this photo till after Bonnie left. Oops. Sorry, Bon!, 12. Eden and Annalie. #latergram, 13. Coltrane and Corbin., 14. Big bubble. (Note: Corbin is not actually inside the bubble.), 15. Elliora napped on Troy for about a half-hour, and then on me for another hour., 16. Annalie and her godparents., 17. 10!, 18. Think we had enough different kinds of dessert?, 19. Annalie, Bug, Aurora, and the portrait Bug painted for A!, 20. Annalie, Luna, Eden, Quora., 21. I treasure this friendship and I will miss @secretagentjo! Thank God for the internet–where we’re both in our element, and where our friendship started, after all. :-), 22. Marshmallow toasters., 23. Yara, Summer, Bonnie, and some weirdo photobombers., 24. They were doing some sort of ceremonial…something. These two, I swear. <3, 25. BFFs.
We left San Diego in mid-May, right after Annalie’s birthday, and went to Omaha for a visit. Troy finished up at work and supervised the pack-out and cleaning up our house, and then he joined us in Omaha.
On June 8th, we flew from Omaha to Seattle, where we hung out for a few days. The military flight to a base near Tokyo leaves from there, and for boring scheduling reasons we had to be here a bit early. But we took advantage of our proximity to Oregon and spent one of those days in Portland, meeting up with Erin and Rocco and Indira and baby Atticus!
Atticus was born in late May, and this was our only chance to see him before we left for Japan, so we took it. (We also got a bonus visit with Erin’s sister Wyleigh, who had to leave to go to the airport after lunch, but it was nice to see her even briefly.) Then we hung out at the Portland Children’s Museum for a couple hours before grabbing dinner at Burgerville and heading back to our hotel.
The rest of our time in Seattle was divided between swimming in the hotel pool, meeting up with a couple of internet friends I’d never met before (Hi, Donna! Hi, Lexi!), and just hanging out in the hotel and relaxing. I wish we’d had more time to do actual sightseeing. I guess that’ll keep for another trip.
1. Family-on-the-plane selfie., 2. Seattle, I presume?, 3. New glasses, Elliora? (Wikki Stix came in the kids’ picnic packs on the plane.), 4. On the ground in Seattle., 5. Laughing goobers. (Annnnd I just remembered that I totally forgot to take a picture of my Burgerville burger to make @jenwilsonca jealous.), 6. Wow, I really DO consider coffee one of my best friends. How did Dutch Bros know!?, 7. Waterbabies, 8. Ferry time., 9. Suspension., 10. Blue sky, contrails, Mount Rainier (on the bottom right, looking like a cloud), Puget Sound., 11. Family ferry windblown selfie., 12. We’re excited! One of us is asleep!, 13. Coffee and crazy hair on the ferry., 14. I can now confirm that Donna exists. Internet friends, FTW!, 15. They’re both awake and willing to go outside this time., 16. I can now also confirm that Lexi exists. Internet friends, FTW!
There was also a semi-panicked, last-minute trip to the Navy base in Bremerton to get Annalie a military-dependent ID card, since she had just turned ten. No one had ever said anything to us about Annalie needing an ID card until Troy called the day before our flight to double-check that we had the correct ungodly check-in time. Then the person on the other end of the phone told him they wouldn’t let her on the plane without one. So we called several bases around Seattle to see who did ID cards, and most of them would only accept appointments several days in advance, even though it was kind of an emergency. Luckily, Pass/ID in Bremerton accepted walk-ins. Unluckily, it was a good hour’s drive from our hotel. But in the end we made the trip and got the ID card and it was fine. I told Troy, though, that I would bet cash money that no one at the airport would even think to ask about seeing Annalie’s ID. (They didn’t. Not a single person has asked to see her ID yet.)
We had to catch a 4am shuttle from the hotel to the airport in order to check in on time. Because this was a military flight, everyone who had confirmed seats had to be checked in very early, and then they would open the flight up to standby passengers. If you’re military or a military dependent, they let you fly standby on military flights like that one very cheaply. The catch is, you might have to wait several days to actually get on a flight, but considering it only costs about $20, it’s usually worth it.
After a looooong day and a ten-hour flight, we were on the ground in Japan. We landed at Yokota Air Base, which is near Tokyo, and after we picked up our luggage we piled into the van sent by Troy’s command and headed to Yokosuka, our home for the next two years.
My first couple of hours in Japan are kind of a blur, honestly. We landed at 11am Japan Standard Time, which felt like 7pm Pacific Daylight Time to us, and our day had started at 3am PDT. By the time we got to the Navy Lodge (basically just a hotel on base–most Navy bases have one) at 3pm JST, it felt 11pm to us, and I’d been awake for more than 20 hours except for a few minutes’ nap on the plane. I was toast–we all were. We took our luggage and all the Welcome-to-Japan groceries that Troy’s sponsor and his wife had thoughtfully left at the front desk for us up to our room, ate a late lunch/early dinner at the Chili’s next door to the Lodge, went back to our room, and crashed. The girls were out at 4pm, and we were all asleep by 6pm.
Naturally, Elliora woke up at 3am, which all things considered, wasn’t too bad. And the sun rises around 4am at this time of year in Japan, since there’s no Daylight Savings here.
1. Waiting while Troy and I talk about cell phone plans, she took off her shoes, curled up in the stroller-fied car seat, and fell asleep. <3, 2. “Hey Mama, now I’ll take a picture with you!”, 3. “It’s our job as mermaids to keep making waves.”, 4. Sunset over Yokosuka., 5. Traffic mirror cheeseballs., 6. Sunflares under a shady tree., 7. Elliora LOVES sitting in her own seat on the base shuttle., 8. Analie reading on the shuttle., 9. Afternoon bed-jumping session., 10. Tunnel., 11. Tunnel selfie., 12. Steep staircase., 13. Trying to nap on the bus, the stinker., 14. Free face-painting, courtesy of the USO., 15. First time eating out in Japan by ourselves! Elliora is having kids’ curry (“It’s a smiley face!”), 16. I guess I’ll be learning how to fold an origami Pikachu now.
And now we’ve been in Japan for three weeks. Time flies when you’re busy! We spent the first week in the Navy Lodge, which wasn’t bad–especially since we had a kitchenette with a full-size fridge–but four people in a room that small starts to feel very crowded. Not that we were spending that much time in the room. We spent our days walking all over the base or taking the free base shuttle, visiting different offices and getting paperwork filed and just exploring. Luckily this is a relatively small base; it’s possible to walk from one end to the other in about a half-hour. And you’d be surprised how much paperwork there is when you’re moving overseas for the military (or maybe you wouldn’t). Troy’s boss had a small barbecue at his house for us one day, so we could meet some people and get out of the hotel for an afternoon, which was really nice. Another day, he took us out in town and showed us around a little bit and took us out to eat at Denny’s, which was DELICIOUS.
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We got a house on base that first week, and we were able to move in almost immediately. It’s an end townhouse with a small backyard, next door to a big playground and only a few minutes’ walk from the NEX and Commissary (department store and grocery store and several restaurants). We’re REALLY lucky we got a house so fast. People often are stuck in the Navy Lodge for a month or two waiting for housing to open up. We’re also REALLY lucky that we were able to get loaner furniture from the base (they have beds, dressers, dentist’s-waiting-room couches, lamps, and tables and chairs that you can check out), and a crash kit (two bins full of towels, sheets, and kitchen items like plates, cups, a coffeemaker, a toaster, etc.). And a few days after that, our first shipment of household goods arrived. This was just a small shipment, the “express” shipment. We’d included kitchen items, towels, bedsheets, and clothes in that shipment, so we’ve able to muddle along pretty well while we wait for our big household goods shipment.
We moved into the house on Friday the 20th. On Monday the 23rd, Troy and I started the Area Orientation Brief. Every day for a week, we sat in a classroom from about 8am-3pm and listened to a parade of speakers telling us about life on this base and what resources are available to us here. We learned about everything from the enviromental services (trash and recycling) to how to license bicycles to what office can help if you want to pursue a college degree while you’re here, and much, much more. We also talked a lot about what it means to live overseas as a U.S. military member or dependent, and learned a lot about Japanese culture–money, food, customs, language, transportation–from a Japanese national who works for the family support center here. One day, we took a field trip to the nearby town of Kamakura, where we visited an important historical shrine, ate at a ramen restaurant, and used the trains to get ourselves home.
1. Blue tile sidewalk, blue road., 2. Train station self-portrait. I have no idea what the mirror says., 3. A street in Kamakura., 4. Ramen! And gyoza., 5. That was GOOD., 6. Signs in Kamakura., 7. Cute yellow clothes, deep blue fiction., 8. Torii gate., 9. Star Festival decorations., 10. Iced latte and mixed berry muffin, necessary for refueling after being tourists in hot weather. (That’s not melting butter in the middle of the muffin…it’s melting white chocolate.), 11. When I set my sunglasses down on the table, I thought the reflection of the window in them was cool., 12. These are ema. Worshippers at Shinto shrines (like the one we were visiting) make a small donation and are given a a wooden plaque to write their prayers or wishes on. Then the priests at the shrine pray for them., 13. Just life! all right (lots of the ema had English or drawings on them as well as Japanese), 14. Tsurugaoka Hachiman shrine, built by the first Shogun ruler of Japan in the 12th century, when he made Kamakura his capital city., 15. I saw these awesome manga-style drawings on some ema, and took a photo for Annalie. Troy pointed out the “potato people” (as our niece Aurora calls them) on the ema at the bottom right., 16. Look! We were really here!, 17. I asked our tour guide, Emi, if the paper decorations all over the shrine had any significance, and she said, “To look pretty.” :-D, 18. There were hundreds of students visiting the shrine. Because of its historical significance and proximity to Tokyo, it’s a popular school-excursion destination. We had several groups of students walk up and ask if they could practice English with us., 19. Beer and sake offerings–from the companies., 20. Four years ago, the sacred gingko tree that had stood here for a thousand years suddenly fell over. There are shoots growing from the roots now, in the roped-off and flagged area–you can see them on the right.
Where were Annalie and Elliora while Troy and I were at class every day, you’re wondering? The teenage daughters of one of Troy’s co-workers, M and N, took turns babysitting the girls for us. We met them at that barbecue when we first arrived. They’re lovely and got along really well with our girls, and when their mom mentioned that they might be open to watching the girls for us, we grabbed at that chance. It was a godsend because that way we didn’t have to mess with the headache and paperwork of enrolling them in the base child development center, and Elliora and Annalie got to stay together. And they had fun with M and N, who brought games and crafts over every day, and one day they all walked over to the exchange for pizza and ice cream. It could have been a very stressful part of the week for all of us (since they’re homeschooled, neither of them have ever been in a situation where they had to attend school or daycare), but thanks to M and N it was downright pleasant.
The last day of the orientation course was driving safety instruction and a written driving test. (Before the test, over the lunch break, the intstructor put up a slideshow of Japanese traffic signs for us to review, like the one above.) We took the practical driving test earlier this week and are now licensed to drive in Japan. Because we’re here with the military and fall under SOFA, we didn’t have to actually live up to Japanese driving standards, which is good for us. In Japan, driving is very much a privilege, not a right, and requires much more extensive education and testing than in most of the U.S. All we had to do was take the one-day safety course, the 50-question test, and the driving test–and that was challenging enough, since in Japan, they drive on the left and the driver sits on the right side of the car. The very first time I ever drove a right-side drive car on the left side of the road? My practical driving test two days ago. Apparently I did well enough, though, because I passed. And now we’re looking for a car to buy! (Our cars and minivan are in storage because it’s pretty expensive to bring cars over and get them licensed and safety-tested for use here. Easier to buy a used car from someone who’s getting ready to go back to the States, then sell it before we leave.)
Since the orientation class ended, we’ve been in a bit of a lull. Well, the girls and I have, anyway. Troy started work on Monday, and as usual, it’s been a bit like drinking from a firehose with all the information he has to absorb in a hurry. But he likes his job and the people he works with, and he’s excited to be on a ship again, and it will get better.
We’re scheduled to receive shipment of our household goods next Friday, and then things will get a bit crazy again for a while as we unpack and settle in. We’re going to be missing Brenda something fierce then! This is going to be the first time in six years–in four moves–that Brenda won’t be helping us unpack and working her organizing and decorating magic on our house. Waaaaah! Somehow we’ll muddle through–they key word being muddle.
So that’s what’s happening with us right now. I’m sure I’ve left out plenty of information, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask in the comments! I’d be happy to answer, especially since it would give me more blog posts to write. (And I’m really gonna try to write more.)
p.s. Yes, I know I desperately need to clean up my sidebar. It’s on my to-do list.