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		<title>seven months&#8217; worth of pottery-painting</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I realized, after I did that last post about the newly-listed items in my Etsy shop (several of which have already been purchased, thank you very much!), that I have not blogged about pottery I&#8217;ve painted for a long time. The last post I could find that had more than a fleeting mention of dottery [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5997321320/" title="little blue &quot;be happy&quot; dottery bowl by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6133/5997321320_369d74cd2c.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="little blue &quot;be happy&quot; dottery bowl"></a></p>
<p>I realized, after I did that last post about the newly-listed items in my Etsy shop (several of which have already been purchased, thank you very much!), that I have not blogged about pottery I&#8217;ve painted for a long time. The last post I could find that had more than a fleeting mention of dottery in it was way back in April! So let me catch you up, if you&#8217;re interested.</p>
<p>The little blue &#8216;be happy&#8217; bowl up there is one that I painted for no particular reason or recipient. I ended up sending it to <a href="http://www.agirlandaboy.com/journal/">Leah</a> as <a href="http://nicethingsnow.com/be-happy/">an apology</a> for taking so long to send her my half of our flip-flop swap.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5802256915/" title="bazinga by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2582/5802256915_6967882452.jpg" width="330" height="220" alt="bazinga"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5802256991/" title="inaccurate BBT quote by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2476/5802256991_68fddc6f0c.jpg" width="165" height="220" alt="inaccurate BBT quote"></a></p>
<p>I painted this bowl for my friend Laura, with a slightly inaccurate <a href="http://www.cbs.com/shows/big_bang_theory/">Big Bang Theory</a> quote on it. I don&#8217;t have a picture of it fired because Laura picked it up from the pottery shop when it was done.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5753624776/" title="Kassie's curse words mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5301/5753624776_e7d2a9eae2.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Kassie's curse words mug"></a></p>
<p>The things I do for my friends. <a href="http://bravelyobey.blogspot.com/">Kassie</a> was inspired to ask me to paint this for her after reading about the <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/painting-geek-dottery-helps-me-stay-sane/">&#8220;first: kindness; then: F*** AUTHORITY&#8221; mug</a> I painted for <a href="http://www.wannabehippie.com/">Elaine</a>. And because I love her, I did it. I&#8217;ll even admit it was kinda fun. But I don&#8217;t plan on painting another one. This was a limited edition mug. I don&#8217;t have a picture of this one fired either. (You can read Kassie&#8217;s hilarious account of watching me paint it <a href="http://bravelyobey.blogspot.com/2011/05/two-birthdays-14-lobsters-and-5-curse.html">here</a>.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5753080085/" title="Kassie painting by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2293/5753080085_89138a3fef.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="Kassie painting"></a><br />
<em>She looks so innocent, doesn&#8217;t she? Not like a person who would ever ask a friend to paint a lovely dottery mug with her five favorite curse words on it.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5997321642/" title="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6141/5997321642_bf0b7d9723.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5997321800/" title="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img  border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6142/5997321800_aa4fd62fd5.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug"></a></p>
<p>I painted this geek dottery mug as a gift for the lovely <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bex/">Bex</a>. It has two Firefly/Serenity quotes on it: &#8220;a little whimsical in the brainpan,&#8221; said by Mal in reference to the mentally-unstable River Tam; and, &#8220;Also, I can kill you with my brain,&#8221; a line said by a very calm River to a very spooked Jayne. The moral here is, never assume that just because someone&#8217;s whimsical that she is not also deadly when the situation calls for it. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5996768011/" title="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6136/5996768011_8f41187b02.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5997322068/" title="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6021/5997322068_536ff0f7ba.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Bex's whimsical Firefly mug"></a></p>
<p>I had a lot of fun painting this mug, particularly the little whimsical bits.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5996768367/" title="annoying smudges by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6149/5996768367_0297bc1df5.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="annoying smudges"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5996768493/" title="grr, another smudge by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6122/5996768493_a5befdfc53.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="grr, another smudge"></a></p>
<p>These annoying smudges are not fun, however. I took photos of this mug with my phone before it was fired, so I know these smudges weren&#8217;t there when I finished painting it. That means someone at the pottery studio wasn&#8217;t handling my pieces carefully. I&#8217;ve had this happen to at least three or four pieces I&#8217;ve painted at that studio. Rather disappointing because it&#8217;s only 10 minutes from my house.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6034325951/" title="be festive by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6123/6034325951_619f7d2989.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="be festive"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6034879842/" title="Olé by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6070/6034879842_4f2730d832.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Olé"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/">Brenda</a> had asked me to paint her a round dottery mug a while back, when her cool <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/3716380946/">blue coral mug</a> broke and she missed having a round mug. When I was in California and Brenda had the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157627332930488/">summer fiesta</a> in our honor, she said that she needed to remember how much fun it is for her when she throws parties. So I painted her this mug as a reminder to <em>be festive</em>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6199588019/" title="a vase for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6029/6199588019_a31a31cff7.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="a vase for Jen"></a></p>
<p>A little &#8216;be happy&#8217; dottery vase I painted for <a href="http://chasingthefirefly.wordpress.com/">Madge</a>, at her request.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6221945198/" title="How's this mug look? Pretty cunning, don'tcha think? by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6104/6221945198_9644036c98.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="How's this mug look? Pretty cunning, don'tcha think?"></a></p>
<p>This cunning mug was a custom order for my Etsy shop, a dotty mug with Jayne Cobb&#8217;s hat on the front and a Firefly quote on the back. I was a bit nervous about painting the hat, but I think it turned out pretty well.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6221945992/" title="&quot;Dear Diary, Today I was pompous and my sister was crazy...it was the best day ever.&quot; by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6166/6221945992_7a6c6ba99f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="&quot;Dear Diary, Today I was pompous and my sister was crazy...it was the best day ever.&quot;"></a></p>
<p>&#8220;Dear Diary, Today I was pompous and my sister was crazy&#8230;it was the best day ever.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6221946998/" title="Shiny. by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6222/6221946998_75e1aaeb69.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Shiny."></a></p>
<p>Shiny.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271615214/" title="Annalie's Azurill plate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6105/6271615214_d1394e3535.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie's Azurill plate"></a></p>
<p>Annalie painted this <a href="http://bulbapedia.bulbagarden.net/wiki/Azurill_(Pok%c3%a9mon)">Azurill</a> plate the same day that I painted Katie&#8217;s <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271614666/">NO WHINING</a> sign. She pored over her Pokemon book, and picked the cutest one she thought she could paint. This was almost a disaster because she accidentally spilled a big blotch of black paint on the right ear and was very upset. I convinced her to leave the plate overnight and let it dry, and we&#8217;d come back the next day to fix it. We scraped the mistake off, and fixed the blue and pink, and now you can&#8217;t even tell the black blotch was there.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349283727/" title="internet friends mugs by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6099/6349283727_ee29506b6a.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="internet friends mugs"></a></p>
<p>Remember those <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6331222254/">&#8216;internet friends FTW!&#8217; mugs</a> that <a href="http://rainbowrowell.com/blog/">Rainbow</a> and I painted while I was in Omaha? Bad news.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6393349607/" title="Bummer. by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7025/6393349607_f79dd13a9e.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Bummer."></a></p>
<p>It got broken during shipping. I was fairly bummed about this. I really liked those colors, and now Rainbow&#8217;s mug will be lonely.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6393349657/" title="big ol' crack by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6225/6393349657_d274b7dcd7.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="big ol' crack"></a></p>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t even superglue it together and use it to hold pens, because there was a big ol&#8217; U-shaped crack all across one side. Of all the mugs and bowls and things I&#8217;ve shipped, this is the first one I&#8217;m aware of that has broken. So it&#8217;s possible there was some flaw in the bisque that made it more prone to breaking. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6393349695/" title="signed on the bottom by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6221/6393349695_5fb0c7e7b4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="signed on the bottom"></a></p>
<p>At least I still have the memories. And an excuse to drag Rainbow to paint pottery with me again next time I&#8217;m in Omaha.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6350031534/" title="yay, handprint! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6115/6350031534_76db4a7201.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="yay, handprint!"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349283991/" title="printing Elliora's hand by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6105/6349283991_02784ed485.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="printing Elliora's hand"></a></p>
<p>I actually got to paint pottery twice when we were in Omaha. The second time, I went with my mom, my girls, and Aurora. We did a handprint plate for my my mom with all three of her granddaughters&#8217; handprints on it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349284067/" title="granddaughters handprint plate, unfired by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6094/6349284067_c3862c185f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="granddaughters handprint plate, unfired"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349283921/" title="&quot;I paint!&quot; by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6118/6349283921_5415b0e0be.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="&quot;I paint!&quot;"></a></p>
<p>My mom wasn&#8217;t planning for Aurora to paint anything, but when she saw Annalie gathering paint and brushes, she said, &#8220;I paint? I paint too?&#8221; I helped her pick a plate and paint colors, and she painted the heck out of that plate.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6350031414/" title="Elliora is SHOCKED by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6098/6350031414_b6c025a70c.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Elliora is SHOCKED"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349283897/" title="happy baby has the keys by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6217/6349283897_364e24c9b5.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy baby has the keys"></a></p>
<p>Elliora didn&#8217;t paint. She hung out in the stroller, played with my mom&#8217;s keys. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6350031604/" title="baby with a sucker by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6120/6350031604_a3c4a8fe45.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="baby with a sucker"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6350031620/" title="suckerhead by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6031/6350031620_b0864385e4.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="suckerhead"></a></p>
<p>She had her first lollipop, which she kept rubbing on her hair, then putting back in her mouth with an &#8220;Mmmmm!&#8221; Crazy baby.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349284095/" title="unfired butter dish by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6099/6349284095_28ce914a15.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="unfired butter dish"></a></p>
<p>Annalie fingerpainted this butter dish for my parents. I wrote the word &#8216;Butter&#8217; on it just in case they couldn&#8217;t remember what they were supposed to use it for. (This is a photo of it unfired; my mom didn&#8217;t get to pick it up till after we left.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6393349739/" title="Annalie painted this plate for me by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7149/6393349739_1573cd2f41.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie painted this plate for me"></a></p>
<p>Annalie also painted this plate for me, using my favorite colors. Isn&#8217;t she sweet?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6393349779/" title="Elliora's handprint plate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7156/6393349779_75a10410ea.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Elliora's handprint plate"></a></p>
<p>Elliora did paint this plate, sort of. I helped her put handprints all over it one day when we were at our favorite pottery studio in Maryland. I think it turned out kinda cute, no?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6393349809/" title="'do what you love' purple dottery bowl by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7147/6393349809_c25273b9a1.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="'do what you love' purple dottery bowl"></a></p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s pretty clear that I do what I love, or this post wouldn&#8217;t have been nearly this long.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[October 2: Annalie&#8217;s been doing a lot of drawing on her easel chalkboard lately. I thought this one, of a pear on a branch, was particularly good. October 3: Class in in session. (Homeschooling can be kind of awesome. In our dress code, pajamas and bedhead are perfectly acceptable attire.) I looked out the window [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456166/" title="pear on a branch by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6095/6219456166_7cef208a2b.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="pear on a branch"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456212/" title="class is in session by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6037/6219456212_4248b76a02.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="class is in session"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 2: </strong>Annalie&#8217;s been doing a lot of drawing on her easel chalkboard lately. I thought this one, of a pear on a branch, was particularly good.</p>
<p><strong>October 3: </strong>Class in in session. (Homeschooling can be kind of awesome. In our dress code, pajamas and bedhead are perfectly acceptable attire.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6218934645/" title="Oh, deer! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6052/6218934645_5fb5d44589.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Oh, deer!"></a></p>
<p>I looked out the window of Elliora&#8217;s room and saw four deer across the street in our neighbor&#8217;s yard. (One of the deer is just to the left of frame, behind a bush, so I didn&#8217;t bother trying to get it in the shot.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456508/" title="Katy and Elliora - 10 months by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6097/6219456508_b194c08a9b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Katy and Elliora - 10 months"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6218934957/" title="Katy and Elliora - 10 months by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6161/6218934957_32361c63c3.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Katy and Elliora - 10 months"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456458/" title="oops, I dropped it by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6114/6219456458_7e6dc82d4c.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="oops, I dropped it"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 4:</strong> I couldn&#8217;t get Elliora to lie on the couch for our <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157625829709971/with/6219456508/">monthly photo session</a>; she kept rolling away. I tried to sneak some photos in one day when Katy happened to be in her bedroom while we were in there playing, but I couldn&#8217;t get Elliora to look at me for a single photo. Oh well. This is very representative of 10 months.</p>
<p>We got a new chair from our neighbors who were getting rid of it after it didn&#8217;t sell at their garage sale. Elliora loves it and has already figured out how to push it up against the couch and use it to climb up. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456688/" title="CMDR Gronberg and his girls by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6179/6219456688_937f3940e1.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="CMDR Gronberg and his girls"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456722/" title="just readin' in her chair by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6154/6219456722_75067737fe.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="just readin' in her chair"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 5: </strong>Troy had to come home on a lunch break. I grabbed the opportunity to take a photo of him and the girls. (He normally wears civilian clothes on his commute and changes into his uniform at work, so we don&#8217;t see him in uniform very often.)</p>
<p>Elliora, just reading in her chair.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456808/" title="Kanelbullar by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6230/6219456808_838e39b70a.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Kanelbullar"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 6:</strong> My friend <a href="http://blog2.queenoframbles.com/">Carrie</a>, who is married to a Swede and used to live in Sweden, mentioned that October 4th is National Cinnamon Bun Day in Sweden, which inspired me to try making some tasty <a href="http://annesfood.blogspot.com/2007/10/swedish-cinnamon-buns.html">Swedish cinnamon buns</a>, also called Kanelbullar. I knew that Swedish pearl sugar I bought just because it was pretty would come in handy someday.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456844/" title="painting with my girls by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6118/6219456844_f397df0d36.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="painting with my girls"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6219456880/" title="like a big girl by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6171/6219456880_407646a8ac.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="like a big girl"></a></p>
<p>I went painting pottery with both girls, and all things considered, I won&#8217;t be doing that again anytime soon. I managed to keep Elliora entertained and paint at the same time but it was exhausting.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271614666/" title="NO WHINING by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6237/6271614666_6633cf3869.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="NO WHINING"></a></p>
<p>I painted this sign (&#8220;NO WHINING. <font size="1">Kthx.</font>&#8220;) for my friend <a href="http://theteachermcmillan.blogspot.com/">Katie</a> as an unbirthday gift for her to hang in her high-school English classroom.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6221429191/" title="in the toybox by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6099/6221429191_1d907bd93f.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="in the toybox"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6221948408/" title="sisters in black by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6168/6221948408_63b654fab5.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="sisters in black"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 7:</strong> Elliora decided that her toy basket looked like a comfortable place to sit.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6224173765/" title="happy thing: our neighbors are Trekkies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6118/6224173765_cd450d1afa.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="happy thing: our neighbors are Trekkies"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 8:</strong> We were invited over to our neighbors&#8217; for pizza and the last swim of the summer in their pool. I was sitting in their living room when I glanced out the window and saw they had &#8220;Live long and prosper&#8221; painted along the inside of the fascia on their front porch, so you&#8217;d see it as you walk out the door. I&#8217;ve been over there a half-dozen times and never noticed it before. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6287311527/" title="the littlest Husker fans by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6040/6287311527_1dcf643273.jpg" width="500" height="373" alt="the littlest Husker fans"></a></p>
<p>Elliora on the left at 10 months; Annalie on the right at 17 months, in 2005.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6250930380/" title="she gets around by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6093/6250930380_137a16329b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="she gets around"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 10:</strong> Elliora has discovered a love of being underneath tables. We&#8217;ve discovered how many gross things and choking hazards normally live underneath our tables. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6270911886/" title="menace to newspapers everywhere by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6101/6270911886_9511f1c0f3.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="menace to newspapers everywhere"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6270911644/" title="cutie sisters by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6100/6270911644_5316bd191b.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="cutie sisters"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 11:</strong> Elliora has also discovered the basket by our fireplace where we keep firewood and old newspapers. She takes her job of spreading every last sheet of newspaper around the room at least once a day very seriously. </p>
<p>Speaking of Trekkies, Elliora looks adorable in her <a href="http://www.thinkgeek.com/geek-kids/newborn-infant/c754/">ThinkGeek Starfleet Academy Cadet onesie</a>, don&#8217;t you agree? </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6270382587/" title="it's hard to make mashed-potato casserole look pretty by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6051/6270382587_ffb315d552.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="it's hard to make mashed-potato casserole look pretty"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 12:</strong> It&#8217;s really hard to make <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/two-cheese-mashed-potato-bake-with-rosemary/">mashed-potato casserole</a> look pretty.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271087645/" title="happy thing: geek friends come bearing geeky gifts &lt;3 by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6120/6271087645_6af4cd9e81.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: geek friends come bearing geeky gifts &lt;3"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 13:</strong> I love it when geeky friends come bearing geeky gifts. Well, technically <a href="http://www.randomactsoflaura.blogspot.com/">Laura</a> painted the bowl on the left for me because I painted a dottery bowl for her with a BBT quote (which I never got a photo of, I just realized). And <a href="http://girlwithgreencard.blogspot.com/">Sonja</a> mailed the bowl (with quotes from the song <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPeKu6smrvg">Friends Forever</a> in the Scrubs episode &#8220;My Musical&#8221;) to me, she didn&#8217;t give it to me in person. But the point stands.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271087831/" title="happy thing: apple pie cookies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6091/6271087831_003dabab81.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: apple pie cookies"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 14:</strong> These apple-pie cookies (via <a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2011/10/apple-pie-cookies/">smitten kitchen</a>) were extremely delicious. I kind of want to go make another complicated, time-consuming batch right this very second. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271614262/" title="just a nibble of Fall by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6053/6271614262_7223880ea0.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="just a nibble of Fall"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271088405/" title="leaves!!1! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6233/6271088405_27a224628a.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="leaves!!1!"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 15:</strong> Elliora getting a taste of fall. (Har har.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271614950/" title="happy thing: rainbow sparkly fingernails! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6104/6271614950_86c8b7c2a0.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: rainbow sparkly fingernails!"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 17:</strong> Rainbow sparkly fingernails! The polish (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/2011-Holiday-Muppets-Rainbow-Connection/dp/B005R4TO6K/">Rainbow Connection</a>, natch) is from the OPI Muppet collection. It made me happy every time I glanced at my hands. Too bad it chipped and peeled so easily. But I&#8217;ve been told I should try a base coat next time and that might help.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271089109/" title="Elliora is a climbing fool by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6052/6271089109_56390b90fa.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Elliora is a climbing fool"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 18:</strong> Elliora is a climbing fool.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271089179/" title="happy thing: an adorable spelling mistake by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6226/6271089179_7c85621382.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: an adorable spelling mistake"></a></p>
<p><strong>October 19:</strong> We went on a leaf walk for science, collecting red and gold leaves and talking about why trees change color in the fall. Annalie copied a list of words for handwriting practice and just to help her learn the words. I threw a couple of pictures in there and told her to write the words for the pictures. The picture for #6 was a <em>tree</em>, and I had to laugh when I saw how Annalie had spelled it. When I pointed her mistake out to her, Annalie thought it was pretty funny too. She said, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what I was thinking. I know how to spell &#8216;tree!&#8217;&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Day 2 &#8211; INSIDE my TARDIS keychain</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 01:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All together now: it&#8217;s bigger on the inside! Or more cashy, at least. (If you&#8217;re totally lost, this is a Doctor Who reference. The TARDIS is the Doctor&#8217;s spaceship/time machine and it looks like a 1960&#8242;s British blue police box on the outside, but on the inside is huge.)]]></description>
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<p>All together now: it&#8217;s <a href="http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BiggerOnTheInside">bigger on the inside</a>! Or more cashy, at least. </p>
<p>(If you&#8217;re totally lost, this is a <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/doctorwho/dw">Doctor Who</a> reference. The TARDIS is the Doctor&#8217;s spaceship/time machine and it looks like a 1960&#8242;s British blue police box on the outside, but on the inside is huge.)</p>
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		<title>a public service announcement from TV&#8217;s Nathan Fillion</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2011 21:07:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yep, it&#8217;s time to polish up those shiny surfaces and start thinking of creative self-portrait poses: 7 Days starts tomorrow!]]></description>
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<p>Yep, it&#8217;s time to polish up those shiny surfaces and start thinking of creative self-portrait poses: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a> starts tomorrow!</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 03:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Outside my window the hotel pool is glowing gently. We&#8217;re in North Carolina for a short trip. Annalie&#8217;s cousin Brett had his birthday party today and this year we were able to attend. Tomorrow we&#8217;ll hang out with Dana and Paul and Brett and Leo at their house before heading home after lunch. Troy, Annalie [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Outside my window</strong> the hotel pool is glowing gently. We&#8217;re in North Carolina for a short trip. Annalie&#8217;s cousin Brett had his birthday party today and this year we were able to attend. Tomorrow we&#8217;ll hang out with Dana and Paul and Brett and Leo at their house before heading home after lunch. Troy, Annalie and Elliora are all asleep already.</p>
<p><strong>I am thinking</strong> about the six baby blankets I want to make in the next three months. Two of them are already in progress. Am I insane to think I can manage that? We shall see.</p>
<p><strong>I am thankful for</strong> everything, really. I feel like I whine and complain a lot these days, but I know how blessed I am. I have the luxury of being annoyed when the signal I&#8217;m using to access the internet as we drive down I-95 blips out for a second. My problems could be so much bigger, and they&#8217;re not. #diamondshoes </p>
<p><strong>I am wearing</strong> a nightgown. But that&#8217;s boring, so instead I&#8217;ll tell you about two things I wore today which you may also find boring unless you are a breastfeeding mother. Feel free to skip ahead if you&#8217;re bored already. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been searching for the perfect nursing shirt for, oh, seven years, really. I think I may have finally found it: the <a href="http://www.momzelle.com/details/81/#023--nursing-crisscross-tee">nursing criss-cross tee</a> from <a href="http://www.momzelle.com/nursing-clothing">Momzelle</a>. My main problem with most nursing shirts is that I have broad shoulders and a wide ribcage, but I&#8217;m not, shall we say, overly endowed in the chestal area&#8212;not even when I&#8217;m nursing. So shirts that fit my shoulders and torso completely droop down my front and <a href="http://twitter.com/#!/bethanyactually/status/79968905136832512">show my bra to the world</a>. Shirts that are more modest fit me like cling wrap, which is neither flattering nor comfortable. So I&#8217;m fairly excited to have finally found a shirt that (a) fits my proportions, (b) is comfortable and cute, and (b) is easy to nurse in. Huzzah! </p>
<p>The other thing I was wearing today that might interest you if you&#8217;re a nursing mother or plan on spending a lot of time holding a baby is this <a href="http://www.etsy.com/transaction/51505011">turquoise nursing necklace</a> from the Etsy shop <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/mylilmarket">My Lil Market</a>. I had a couple of nursing necklaces when Annalie was a baby, but they were more of the bright-tacky-plastic variety. This one is so pretty, I will probably be wearing it long after Elliora has stopped nursing. But I&#8217;ll definitely keep wearing it now because Elliora <em>loved</em> it. She spent several hours today playing with the beads and shoving different parts of it in her mouth. Not surprising, really; I&#8217;m sure this string of beads and stones is far more enticing than the specifically-designed-to-interest-a-baby necklaces I used to have, because babies always reject their fun toys in favor of the forbidden grown-up things, don&#8217;t they? </p>
<p><strong>I am remembering</strong> that tomorrow, in addition to being my nephew Brett&#8217;s birthday, is also my other sister-in-law&#8217;s wedding anniversary and the anniversary of the day my mom, my brother and I were all baptized. </p>
<p><strong>I am going</strong> to brush my teeth. Be right back.</p>
<p><strong>I am currently reading</strong> <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/9780767903820?&#038;PID=32442">I&#8217;m a Stranger Here Myself: Notes on Returning to America after Twenty Years Away</a>, by Bill Bryson. This is another one I&#8217;m re-reading. Bill Bryson is one of my favorite authors&#8212;partly because he&#8217;s hilarious in a nerdy, befuddled, self-deprecating way that just rings my bell; and partly because he once sent me a letter in reply to one I&#8217;d written him&#8212;and reading his books is kind of like eating meatloaf and mashed potatoes or homemade macaroni and cheese. It&#8217;s comfort food for my brain and soul.</p>
<p><strong>I am hoping</strong> that our drive home tomorrow goes as well as the 4.5-hour drive down did. Elliora slept for a total of three hours and change, played with a toy or looked out the window for another hour, and only cried for a few minutes right after lunch and about 15 minutes at the tail end of the trip. Fingers crossed.</p>
<p><strong>On my mind</strong>: <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/for-samantha-update-with-sad-news/">Samantha</a> and her parents. </p>
<p><strong>Noticing that</strong> Annalie is almost as tall as I am. I picked her up today for the first time in a while and was kind of shocked how big she seemed. I&#8217;m sure part of that is because these days I&#8217;m usually carrying Elliora, but still.</p>
<p><strong>Around the house</strong> we have way too much stuff. Troy and I were just talking yesterday about how we&#8217;re overdue for a good clearing-out and getting-rid-of. Usually we do that as we unpack after a move, but maybe we&#8217;ll do it before we move this time.</p>
<p><strong>In the kitchen</strong>, I am spending a lot more time lately. (Yoda, I sound like.) Elliora loves to eat. Like, she LOVES to eat. I am happy to make most of her food but it means I&#8217;m spending quite a bit more time in the kitchen lately, feeding her as well as cooking for her. I don&#8217;t really mind a bit, though. It&#8217;s so fun to feed a baby who likes everything we&#8217;ve offered her.<br />
Applesauce (with and without cinnamon), mashed bananas, oatmeal, mixed-grain cereal, carrots, sweet potato, butternut squash, peas, green beans, spinach, pears, peaches, mango, avocado, refried beans, broccoli, rice, beef, turkey, ham, blueberries, pumpkin, watermelon, chicken, black olive, bacon, cheddar cheese, goat cheese, plain yogurt, mashed potatoes with garlic, Cheerios, asparagus&#8230;I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m forgetting some. Seriously, she likes everything.)</p>
<p><strong>One of my favorite things</strong> is finding awesome new TV shows to watch, and then geeking out over them with friends.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5745314738/" title="Annalie on the left, Elliora on the right by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2675/5745314738_b8552462b6.jpg" width="500" height="250" alt="Annalie on the left, Elliora on the right"></a></p>
<p><strong>From my photo archive</strong>: Speaking of Elliora eating, here is a picture of her (on the right) eating carrots at 5 months old. Annalie (on the left) was about a year old when this picture was taken in June 2005, and was eating Spaghetti-Os. </p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 04:46:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend Bonnie decided on her birthday this year that she would take a picture every day of something that made her happy, to remind herself in the midst of a difficult time to Find the Happy. She decided to create a Flickr group so her friends could share the happy too. Finding a bit [...]]]></description>
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<p>My friend <a href="http://zebrabelly.wordpress.com/">Bonnie</a> decided on her birthday this year that she would take a picture every day of something that made her happy, <a href=" http://zebrabelly.wordpress.com/2011/02/15/happy-things/">to remind herself in the midst of a difficult time to Find the Happy</a>. She decided to create a Flickr group so her friends could share the happy too.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/1635752@N23/">Finding a bit of Happy each day.</a></p>
<p>The rules: </p>
<p>1. Find some Happy and photograph it each day. You could choose to do it less often if that works better for your life but my theory is that the more often you look for the Happy, the more the Happy helps.<br />
2. Do it for a year. Or less. Or more. Or as needed.<br />
3. No Unhappy allowed. That also includes self-abuse if you miss a day or lots of days. Hippie voice: Go with the flow, man. Everything is as it should be.<br />
4. Rules are for breaking. Except Number 3, it&#8217;s best not to upset Hippie Voice.</p></blockquote>
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<p>My heart has been heavy lately, thinking about <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/for-samantha-update-with-sad-news/">Samantha</a>. So I&#8217;m reminding myself of some <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157625982600103/with/5620853181/">happy things</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5470026261/" title="happy thing: homemade black &amp; white cookies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5295/5470026261_e1efcc9571.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: homemade black &amp; white cookies"></a></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but homemade <a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/09/black-and-white-cookies/">black-and-white cookies</a> make me very happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5470026229/" title="bonus happy thing by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5134/5470026229_ff04f902ee.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="bonus happy thing"></a></p>
<p>So does the cool way the sun was reflecting off this dotty coffee mug. Like little bubbles of sunlight!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5478484332/" title="happy thing: Annalie marked Troy's birthday on her calendar by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5258/5478484332_14c1688e1c.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: Annalie marked Troy's birthday on her calendar"></a></p>
<p>I happened to glance at Annalie&#8217;s calendar a day or two before Troy&#8217;s birthday and was tickled to realize that she had drawn a miniature portrait of our family on that date, complete with him in a party hat.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5487651489/" title="happy thing: a teeny painting of a harried-looking coffee-drinking cat arriving in the mail by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5292/5487651489_d0d7bb9be8.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: a teeny painting of a harried-looking coffee-drinking cat arriving in the mail"></a></p>
<p>I love it when I get <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/68740879/stack-o-paintings">a teeny painting of a harried-looking coffee-drinking cat</a> in the mail. Thanks, <a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/">Brenda</a>!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5491274844/" title="happy thing: french toast on a dottery plate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5097/5491274844_d2099e47d7.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: french toast on a dottery plate"></a></p>
<p>French toast with powdered sugar on a sunshiny dottery plate. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5519468504/" title="happy thing: making time for crocheting by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5179/5519468504_d7b93b85b9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: making time for crocheting"></a></p>
<p>Keeping a baby alive and homeschooling a 7-year-old are both time-consuming pursuits (duh), but while I barely have time to shower and I don&#8217;t seem to have time for housework, I manage to cook dinner almost every night and write emails and blog posts (sort of) and I&#8217;ve been crocheting a lot. So I guess it&#8217;s true that you do make time for what you love. And crocheting makes me happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5539168082/" title="happy thing: how much Annalie loves her little sister by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5134/5539168082_a578892202.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: how much Annalie loves her little sister"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5618591048/" title="happy thing: taking my Emergen-C in this little glass from a wine festival in Cyprus by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5267/5618591048_51e7fa7f47.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: taking my Emergen-C in this little glass from a wine festival in Cyprus"></a></p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure that in a year or so I&#8217;ll be hearing many cries of &#8220;Mo-ooom, make her stop touching my stuff!&#8221; So I try extra hard to enjoy the sweet moments like this, when it&#8217;s clear how much Annalie loves her little sister.</p>
<p>On one of Troy&#8217;s Navy deployments years ago, he happened to go to a wine festival in Cyprus, and he brought back two of these little glasses. They&#8217;re the perfect size for a shot of juice or taking a packet of Emergen-C, and it makes me smile each time I use one. It&#8217;s such a random thing to have in my cupboard, small wineglasses from a Cypriot wine festival, yet there they are.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5620853181/" title="happy thing(s): a good book and success for a friend by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5225/5620853181_5cf6af052e.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="happy thing(s): a good book and success for a friend"></a></p>
<p>I went to high school and college with <a href="http://rainbowrowell.com/">Rainbow Rowell</a>. (I know, awesome name!) She wasn&#8217;t someone I hung out with, but we knew each other. We had mutual friends, and when we went to the same university we occasionally ate lunch together. I&#8217;ve been reading Rainbow&#8217;s writing for two decades now, mostly in newspaper-column or blog-post form, but now I&#8217;ve read something way more exciting: Rainbow&#8217;s very first novel, a romantic comedy called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Attachments-Rainbow-Rowell/dp/0525951989">Attachments</a>. The night I started reading it, I actually got out of bed at 3:30am, feeling compelled to send Rainbow a message to let her know I was loving her book and was genuninely happy for and proud of her. (I&#8217;ll be interviewing Rainbow soon and doing a giveaway of her book in a blog post, so stay tuned for that!)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5779437507/" title="happy thing: rosy room by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2081/5779437507_193dc65b9d.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: rosy room"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5779985010/" title="happy thing: wildflower &amp; wild strawberry bouquet by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5106/5779985010_0a4fa1edde.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: wildflower &amp; wild strawberry bouquet"></a></p>
<p>The sun was shining into Annalie&#8217;s room just right one afternoon so that her bright fuchsia sheets were reflecting a pink glow onto everything else in the room. A few days later, Annalie picked this bouquet of wildflowers, leaves of grass, and a wild strawberry from our yard for me and arranged them in an old vanilla bottle. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5785488732/" title="happy thing: a brunch that everyone can eat by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3378/5785488732_ae4f2e9e47.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: a brunch that everyone can eat"></a></p>
<p>The first Saturday that <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/girlwithgreencard/">Sonja</a> was here, <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluesleepy/">Karyl</a> &#038; her girls came up to <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157626733323821/with/5785488732/">spend the day with us</a>, which was super fun. We started with brunch&#8212;<a href="http://bethanyactually.com/day-4-christmas-morning-aebleskiver/">aebleskiver</a> and<a href="http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/the-surreal-gourmet/blackened-home-fried-potatoes-from-hell-recipe/index.html"> home-fried potatoes</a> and bacon and fruit&#8212;which made me very happy because I love brunch. Also, I made the aebleskiver with almond milk and coconut oil and maple syrup (in place of cow&#8217;s milk and butter and granulated sugar) so Sonja could eat them, and they were totally as delicious as usual. It was a Very Happy Thing indeed: brunch everyone could eat!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5802256181/" title="happy thing: Sonja-safe brownies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5159/5802256181_77401c1285.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: Sonja-safe brownies"></a></p>
<p>Sonja-safe brownies, made with coconut oil instead of butter and honey instead of sugar. And they tasted good! Yay! I had fun meeting the challenge of cooking without ingredients I usually rely on while Sonja was here. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806864955/" title="happy thing: when naps end like this by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5109/5806864955_7339e485fc.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: when naps end like this"></a></p>
<p>I love it when naps end like this, with Elliora waking up in the Ergo and smiling when she sees me. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806865319/" title="happy thing: perfectly summery meal by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3566/5806865319_b4f98edc56.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: perfectly summery meal"></a></p>
<p>If I have to put up with hot and humid summer weather, at least I get to eat perfectly summery meals like this: grilled mini burgers, strawberries, and marinated cucumber salad. Yum. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806865245/" title="happy thing: geeky necklace from Etsy by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3310/5806865245_0a0b12d81f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: geeky necklace from Etsy"></a></p>
<p>After seeing <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/out-of-my-mind/5287994308/">Lauren&#8217;s Doctor Who necklace</a> on Flickr, I stalked <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/imaginationemporium?ref=pr_shop_more">this Etsy shop</a> until she listed more so I could buy one for myself. I like how the high-top sneaker is a reference to the Chucks habitually worn by both the <a href="http://charactersinconverse.tumblr.com/post/4677529607/the-tenth-doctor-in-converse-sneakers">Tenth Doctor</a> and <a href="http://charactersinconverse.tumblr.com/post/4679465372/chuck-bartowski-in-converse-sneakers">Chuck Bartowski</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5501629374/" title="happy thing: popcorn traditions by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5012/5501629374_09eda2477c.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: popcorn traditions"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806865371/" title="happy thing: dark chocolate with caramel and black sea salt by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5110/5806865371_ca7b0e3bdb.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: dark chocolate with caramel and black sea salt"></a></p>
<p>We often make popcorn with the very air-popper that I used when I was a kid, and eat it out of the exact stainless-steel bowl I used to eat popcorn from. (My mom was getting rid of the air popper and asked if I wanted it; I basically swiped the bowl because I loved it so much. Both these things are 30+ years old.) </p>
<p>Trader Joe&#8217;s dark chocolate bar with caramel bar and black sea salt. Enough said.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5825010492/" title="happy thing: living near a good bakery by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3048/5825010492_651a2a6475.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: living near a good bakery"></a></p>
<p>We live near a good bakery and stop there on a regular basis for treats. Every time, Annalie carefully surveys the variety of lovely, fancy cookies and pastries&#8230;and then requests a plain butter cookie. I love that.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5824451053/" title="happy thing: neighbors who own a bounce house by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2227/5824451053_e9d86ccfdd.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: neighbors who own a bounce house"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5824451379/" title="happy thing: summer rain by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5305/5824451379_6c3c0fdec6.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: summer rain"></a></p>
<p>I believe we&#8217;ve mentioned before that our neighbors across the street actually <em>own</em> a bounce house? They put it up for birthdays and parties and random weekends just for fun. And they are happy to share it with the neighborhood kids. </p>
<p>Rain always makes me happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5825010604/" title="happy thing: neon aquamarine polish by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2161/5825010604_084da8fac9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: neon aquamarine polish"></a></p>
<p>Neon aquamarine polish, and bare feet outside, and green grass, and bits of sidewalk chalk. Basically, summer&#8217;s here!</p>
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		<title>painting geek dottery helps me stay sane</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We gotta go to the crappy town where I&#8217;m a hero! (4:29) If you are a Browncoat and you have not seen this video of Adam Baldwin singing Hero of Canton, do yourself a favor and watch it now. I&#8217;ll wait for you to come back. In case you have not figured it out by [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QC_7bnPF_Q&#038;feature=related" target="_blank">We gotta go to the crappy town where I&#8217;m a hero!</a> (4:29)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642176345/" title="Hero of Canton by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5070/5642176345_266177c2b9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Hero of Canton"></a></p>
<p>If you are a <a href="http://www.browncoats.com/">Browncoat</a> and you have not seen this video of <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEIDvgapTw8" target="_blank">Adam Baldwin singing Hero of Canton</a>, do yourself a favor and watch it now. I&#8217;ll wait for you to come back.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642176363/" title="you can't take the sky from me by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5309/5642176363_1ac9f79fb5.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="you can't take the sky from me"></a></p>
<p>In case you have not figured it out by now, this mug is part of my <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157626436607115/">Geek Dottery</a> series. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5475313195/" title="Chuck 'pineapple' mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5011/5475313195_36f328fd25.jpg" width="500" height="338" alt="Chuck 'pineapple' mug"></a></p>
<p>So is this mug I painted for Jen from <a href="http://followingtheroad.com/">Following the Road</a> a while back, at her request. The pineapple is a <a href="http://www.nbc.com/chuck/">Chuck</a> reference. Big surprise, right? You can watch <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcL8K0QqhJA&#038;feature=related">this video</a> and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZA29AhiP6Y">this video</a> to get in on the joke.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5475911612/" title="Guys, I know kung fu. by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5295/5475911612_dcfce3ae35.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Guys, I know kung fu."></a></p>
<p><em>Guys, I know kung fu.</em> Even though there have been a lot of great moments in Seasons 3 and 4, sometimes I think back to the sheer awesomeness of Season 2 ending with that line, and wish that it had all stopped there and any further adventures of Chuck and Team Bartowski had been left up to my imagination. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5475314347/" title="happy thing: pineapple! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5095/5475314347_3309f4053a.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="happy thing: pineapple!"></a></p>
<p>I tried an experiment, painting that tiny pineapple, and wasn&#8217;t sure how it would turn out. I was so happy when it worked just like I wanted it to.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5647908991/" title="X-Files/BBT mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5102/5647908991_3b60a3696f.jpg" width="500" height="336" alt="X-Files/BBT mug"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://chasingthefirefly.wordpress.com/">Madge</a> requested that I paint <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5038833457/in/set-72157626436607115/">another geeky mug</a> for Fish&#8217;s birthday, this one an <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0106179/">X-Files</a>/<a href="http://www.cbs.com/primetime/big_bang_theory/">Big Bang Theory</a> mash-up. I tried to make the colors of the mug match the greens and dark blues and purples that I associate with X-Files. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642176401/" title="first: Kindness by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5267/5642176401_94b83568ab.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="first: Kindness"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642746072/" title="back of Elaine's mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5264/5642746072_1b5d54f5d5.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="back of Elaine's mug"></a></p>
<p>This last mug isn&#8217;t geek dottery, except in that I painted it as a gift for my friend <a href="http://www.wannabehippie.com/">Elaine</a>, whose blog&#8217;s brilliant tagline is &#8220;where geek meets granola.&#8221; She wrote <a href="http://www.wannabehippie.com/blog/2011/2/17/stay-clear-of-shooting-area.html">this heartfelt post</a> for her daughters about how she wants them to know that they owe kindness to everyone, first and foremost, but that it&#8217;s not okay for anyone to take advantage of that kindness to abuse or hurt them or treat them with disrespect. Hence, the inside of the mug:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642746106/" title="then: F*** authority by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5044/5642746106_2aa7744cd1.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="then: F*** authority"></a></p>
<p>Ahem. I&#8217;d like to point out that this is a direct quote from Elaine&#8217;s blog, which I used on a mug with her permission. (Man, I&#8217;m such a square. I can&#8217;t even cuss in a photo covered with asterisks on my own blog without feeling totally embarrassed about it.)</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t make it to the monthly Ladies&#8217; Night at my usual pottery studio this month, and I really missed it. I&#8217;ve been feeling fairly stressed out lately thanks to Troy working long hours leading up to a deadline and a pulled muscle in my neck and blah blah family blah homeschooling blah blah life in general. Nothing is wrong, exactly; it&#8217;s just one of those times when life is a little extra challenging, you know? On Saturday Troy told me to get out of the house for a couple of hours, so I went to paint at a local studio. I sat all by myself with paint and a Coke Zero and dotted to my heart&#8217;s content for 90 minutes. When I went home I felt much calmer.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642176501/" title="windowsill by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5141/5642176501_82eeee40da.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="windowsill"></a></p>
<p>Thank you to all of you who keep supporting my painting habit by asking me to paint you mugs and bowls and things! It helps keep me sane.</p>
<p>p.s. The Firefly mug at the top of this post is up for grabs! If anyone out there wants to buy it, let me know and I can stick it in my Etsy shop as a reserved order.</p>
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		<title>Laura Voices</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of months ago, a lovely woman named Suzann emailed me to ask if she could have permission to use a photo of mine on her website. She&#8217;s working on a book called The Little House Literary Companion, and as part of the preparation for that book she has a website up with a [...]]]></description>
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<p>A couple of months ago, a lovely woman named Suzann emailed me to ask if she could have permission to use a photo of mine on her website. She&#8217;s working on a book called <em>The Little House Literary Companion</em>, and as part of the preparation for that book she has a website up with a short survey for fans of Laura Ingalls Wilder&#8217;s <em>Little House</em> books. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve loved the <em>Little House</em> books for as long as I can remember and am honored that my humble, grainy, quickly-snapped self-portrait of me and Annalie reading is the photo Suzann wanted to use. You can see my photo and quickly take the survey (it took me all of three minutes) here: <a href="http://lauravoices.com/Home.html"><strong>Laura Voices</strong></a>.</p>
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		<title>pottery: now with more sci-fi geekiness, volcanoes, knitting therapy, and Shakespeare!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2010 04:05:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow, I have not done a pottery post for a while! I can&#8217;t believe I haven&#8217;t blogged some of these yet. I have a lot of catching up to do, so let&#8217;s get right to it&#8230; I&#8217;ll start with my favorite thing I&#8217;ve painted recently. Before we went to California, Madge told me that her [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5038833457/" title="Jeremy's BSG mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4152/5038833457_f9eeb728b0.jpg" width="500" height="417" alt="Jeremy's BSG mug" /></a></p>
<p>Wow, I have not done a pottery post for a while! I can&#8217;t believe I haven&#8217;t blogged some of these yet. I have a lot of catching up to do, so let&#8217;s get right to it&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll start with my favorite thing I&#8217;ve painted recently. Before we went to California, <a href="http://chasingthefirefly.wordpress.com/">Madge</a> told me that her husband Fish was a wee bit jealous of the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4079983226/in/set-72157604438260497/">dottery mug I&#8217;d painted for her birthday</a> last year. He was wondering if I could paint him a mug too, maybe with a Battlestar Galactica reference on it? As a <a href="http://www.syfy.com/battlestar/">BSG</a> fan myself, I jumped all over that one. Madge and Fish and I batted around a few ideas, and eventually settled on &#8220;<a href="http://www.good.is/post/the-lingo-of-battlestar-galactica/">Oh my gods&#8230;this is FRAKKIN&#8217; good coffee!</a>&#8221;  I added &#8220;So say we all!&#8221; on the inside as a surprise. Troy liked this mug so much that he asked me to paint another one for him, which is fine with me. It was super fun to paint.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5041826306/" title="got cocoa?* mug for Kristen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4125/5041826306_d7c0839dd6.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="got cocoa?* mug for Kristen" /></a> </p>
<p>Now I&#8217;ll go in chronological order, more or less, starting with this mug I painted for Kristen (better known in <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a> circles as <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sarkasmo/">sarkasmo</a>) way back in March, but neglected to post photos of till now. Not sure how that happened. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5041200251/" title="*enhancement optional by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4113/5041200251_87137183b2.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="*enhancement optional" /></a></p>
<p>This was inspired by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sarkasmo/4350060885/">a photo she posted of herself drinking cocoa out of a &#8220;got coffee?&#8221; mug</a>. Kristen doesn&#8217;t drink coffee, so it seemed like she needed a &#8220;got cocoa?&#8221; mug. When she had surgery last spring, it seemed like this mug would be the perfect get-well gift. The &#8220;enhancement optional&#8221; is because she spent much of the December 2009 7 Days run making extra-hilarious comments while drinking hot cocoa &#8220;enhanced&#8221; with an adult beverage of some kind, and it&#8217;s become sort of a 7 Days in-joke. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5041185529/" title="bottom of Kristen's mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4154/5041185529_e4380c0504.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="bottom of Kristen's mug" /></a></p>
<p>Also, on the bottom, along with my name and the date, I wrote, &#8220;It&#8217;s a FACT: Kristen is funny.&#8221; Because she IS funny, and because we&#8217;re both Kids in the Hall fans. (Semi-explanatory KitH <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZirUWma3Uvk" rel="nofollow">It&#8217;s A Fact Girl skit</a>.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4920065197/" title="Volcano plate for Erin by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4118/4920065197_fc520383d9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Volcano plate for Erin" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4920065643/" title="back of Erin's birthday gift by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4121/4920065643_79ea80174d.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="back of Erin's birthday gift" /></a></p>
<p>When I asked Erin what she wanted for her birthday this year, she said something like, &#8220;I must be getting old because I can&#8217;t think of anything I want. Maybe Annalie could make me something? I&#8217;d love that.&#8221; I asked Annalie if she would like to make anything for Auntie Erin, and Annalie immediately said she would like to paint her a volcano plate, because Erin loves volcanoes. Annalie designed and painted the plate entirely by herself. I especially like the ash plume, and the river flowing in the foreground.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4920665570/" title="fired 'I knit so I don't kill people' mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4135/4920665570_24a0aa7d3f.jpg" width="500" height="376" alt="fired 'I knit so I don't kill people' mug" /></a></p>
<p>You might recall the <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/dotty-dishes-geeky-mugs-snowballs-and-rainballs/">I-knit-so-I-don&#8217;t-kill-people mug</a> that <a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/">Brenda</a> and I painted for <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/out-of-my-mind/">Lauren</a> early this year. A blog reader saw it, loved it, and wanted to buy it for a friend&#8217;s birthday. Brenda graciously allowed me to copy her design onto a second mug. I added the little ball of yarn with the needles stuck through it on the inside bottom of the mug.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4911463877/" title="turquoise 'be happy' dottery bowl by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4140/4911463877_36f510b4f5.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="turquoise 'be happy' dottery bowl" /></a></p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a cereal bowl I painted for no other reason than that the colors made me happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4920067111/" title="front of little cups for Erin by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4074/4920067111_9d703b48e0.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="front of little cups for Erin" /></a></p>
<p>Erin from <a href="http://www.twomoreseconds.com/">two more seconds</a> asked me to paint these little sake cups for her, so she could turn them into <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/erins/4938043619/">pincushions</a> for a swap. She gave me some photos and a blog banner for inspiration, and it was fun to do something a little different than my usual mugs and plates. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4920666858/" title="tiny aqua dotty bowl by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4097/4920666858_2dd5fbdf4d.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="tiny aqua dotty bowl" /></a></p>
<p>I liked the colors I was using for Erin&#8217;s little cups, so I painted a little bowl for myself.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4920667172/" title="flaws by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4079/4920667172_ef1f613edf.jpg" width="500" height="334" alt="flaws" /></a></p>
<p>I happened to be painting these all at the little pottery studio that&#8217;s about ten minutes from my house. It&#8217;s a nice little studio and it&#8217;s much closer to me than my regular studio, but I don&#8217;t like that they charge a $6 studio fee per person. I also don&#8217;t like that their fired pieces often seem to have these black marks on them. Marks from the kiln? I don&#8217;t know.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4994812674/" title="red and orange dottery 'be happy' mugs by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4132/4994812674_bcbbd647d8.jpg" width="500" height="401" alt="red and orange dottery 'be happy' mugs" /></a></p>
<p>I painted these red and orange dotty &#8216;be happy&#8217; mugs at <a href="http://www.themikestand.com/">Mike</a>&#8216;s request, as he was thinking ahead to Christmas. <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/56559340/two-dottery-mugs-custom-order-reserved">They&#8217;re in my Etsy shop</a> whenever you&#8217;re ready to buy them, Mike!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4994812406/" title="Annalie's happy pumpkin dish by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4085/4994812406_e8e68530d7.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie's happy pumpkin dish" /></a></p>
<p>A lil&#8217; happy jack-o-lantern dish Annalie painted while <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157624681646867/">we were in California</a>. I think she did a great job with it! She&#8217;s getting so much more precise with her painting.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4994206911/" title="Brenda's mug for Troy by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4090/4994206911_03d98eacf8.jpg" width="500" height="401" alt="Brenda's mug for Troy" /></a></p>
<p>Brenda painted this for Troy when we were in California, kind of as a joke. Note the empty, unpacked box in the bottom of the mug reminding Troy while he likes it when she and Bug visit us. Luckily, he thought it was pretty funny. And Brenda and Bug ARE coming back to visit us in November, yay!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4994812544/" title="dottery 'be happy' square funky dish by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4145/4994812544_7a3cbefe10.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="dottery 'be happy' square funky dish" /></a></p>
<p>I painted this square funky dish for no one in particular, just for fun. Anyone out there want it? Gimme a shout, I&#8217;ll put it in <a href="http://bethanyactually.etsy.com">my Etsy shop</a> for ya.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5045487106/" title="remote control bowl for my mom &amp; dad by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4087/5045487106_111abf548a.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="remote control bowl for my mom &amp; dad" /></a></p>
<p>My mom asked me to paint a bowl for their remote controls, so they&#8217;re not forever searching for them. I added my own little touch inside.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5044864903/" title="where'd I put the remote? by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4144/5044864903_a362ac937e.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="where'd I put the remote?" /></a></p>
<p>I hope this bowl is big enough. Mom, do you want me to send this to you, or hang onto it and give it to you when you&#8217;re here in a couple of weeks?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5045487288/" title="dottery Halloween plate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4131/5045487288_6f50caf030.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="dottery Halloween plate" /></a></p>
<p>I painted a <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/2927792169/">Halloween plate</a> a couple of years ago, but I was never 100% happy with it. And recently I felt compelled to send it to Bex for some reason. Maybe God whispered in my ear that she needed a little <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bex/5039552262/">care package of happy</a> because He knew she was going to have kind of a rough September, I don&#8217;t know. In any case, I painted a new Halloween plate for myself&#8230;and I&#8217;m not 100% happy with it either! The orange paint I used was much less <em>orange</em> once fired than I expected it to be. But oh well. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5045487464/" title="be spooooooky! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4088/5045487464_0c187e9798.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="be spooooooky!" /></a></p>
<p>I do like what I wrote on it. I think I might stick this in my Etsy shop. Anyone out there want it? Let me know, I can reserve it for you if you do.</p>
<p>Whew. You still with me? We&#8217;re almost done, I promise!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5045488052/" title="I do love nothing in the world so well as you... by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4128/5045488052_a6d01bb411.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="I do love nothing in the world so well as you..." /></a></p>
<p>This mug is the second one I&#8217;ve painted with one of my favorite Shakespeare quotes, from <i>Much Ado About Nothing,</i> Act IV, Scene I: &#8220;I do love nothing in the world so well as you: Is not that strange?&#8221; </p>
<p>Someone saw <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4722106632/in/set-72157601490630104/">the first one</a> in my Etsy shop but didn&#8217;t buy it fast enough, so she asked me to paint another. Anna, <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/58016126/shakespeare-quote-dottery-mug-much-ado">it&#8217;s in my shop</a> whenever you&#8217;re ready to buy it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5044866019/" title="...is not that strange? by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4084/5044866019_71dbf25f3e.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="...is not that strange?" /></a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Outside my window the sky is a weird orange color, thanks to the thunderstorms that have been moving through our area all afternoon and evening. It&#8217;s rather beautiful. I am thinking about baby names, but not so obsessively any more. Troy and I have narrowed the list down to a handful of possibilities and we&#8217;ll [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Outside my window</strong> the sky is a weird orange color, thanks to the thunderstorms that have been moving through our area all afternoon and evening. It&#8217;s rather beautiful.</p>
<p><strong>I am thinking</strong> about <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/whats-in-a-name/">baby names</a>, but not so obsessively any more. Troy and I have narrowed the list down to a handful of possibilities and we&#8217;ll roll those around in our minds for a while. </p>
<p><em>(Thank you, by the way, for all of you who commented with your favorite girls&#8217; names. My goodness, <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/whats-in-a-name/#comments">we all certainly do like talking about names</a>, don&#8217;t we? And I learned, from reading all your suggestions, that I have a complicated system of rules for naming my children that I wasn&#8217;t even aware of having. Which maybe explains why I was going so crazy for a while there.)</em></p>
<p><strong>I am thankful for</strong> perspective, which makes my life so much less difficult than it otherwise might seem.</p>
<p><strong>I am wearing</strong> a Gallifrey t-shirt and Wal-Mart maternity shorts that I purchased in 2004. (First person to know what Gallifrey is wins a crocheted coffee-cup cozy.) </p>
<p><strong>I am remembering</strong> how uncomfortable all these baby kicks can be. I&#8217;m thankful that the baby is active and healthy, blah blah. But I can honestly say that once this kid is born I won&#8217;t miss all the internal pummeling one little bit.</p>
<p><strong>I am going</strong> to California in 18 days! Yay!</p>
<p><strong>I am currently reading</strong> an issue of <a href="http://touchstonemag.com/">Touchstone Magazine</a>.</p>
<p><strong>I am hoping</strong> that I can figure out this whole homeschooling-a-first-grader thing without going crazy or scarring me or Annalie for life. (Pretty confident I can. Just, y&#8217;know&#8230;fingers crossed.)</p>
<p><strong>On my mind</strong>: the movie <i>Inception</i>, which I&#8217;ve heard praised to the skies from so many different quarters that I think it&#8217;s impossible I won&#8217;t be underwhelmed by it. I&#8217;m still avoiding spoilers, though.</p>
<p><strong>Noticing that</strong> Annalie has probably been watching too much TV lately. But I like my midday naps, so for now I&#8217;ll let it slide.</p>
<p><strong>In the kitchen</strong> there are a few cookies left. I&#8217;m trying to ignore their siren call.</p>
<p><strong>Around the house</strong> is plenty of evidence in every single room that a 6-year-old girl lives here. My attempts to have her clean up after herself are failing to keep pace with her ability to spread her belongings about.</p>
<p><strong>One of my favorite things</strong> is the color of the yarn I&#8217;m using to crochet this baby her own <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/443205102/">cuddle blanket</a>&#8212;sort of a pale yellow-green.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/430985021/" title="Annalie on the first day of spring by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/158/430985021_505aa7e8cc.jpg" width="375" height="500" alt="Annalie on the first day of spring" /></a></p>
<p><strong>From my photo archive</strong>: this photo of Annalie was taken in March 2007, when she was two months shy of her third birthday. I&#8217;m very interested to see if the baby will look as much like Annalie as <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/790935226/">I look like my brother</a>.</p>
<p><em>Post inspired by <a href="http://www.superbeck.com/journal/2010/8/5/for-today-august-5.html">Beck</a>.</em></p>
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