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		<title>an interview with Annnalie</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 05:21:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bethany actually</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is your name? Annalie. How old are you? Seven and a half years old. Where do you live? Washington, D.C. Do you have any pets? Yes. They are two cats. One&#8217;s Katy, and one&#8217;s Lily. Who do you like to play with? My little sister. What’s your favorite cereal? Uh&#8230;Lucky Charms. I also like [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>What is your name?</em></p>
<p>Annalie.</p>
<p><em>How old are you?</em></p>
<p>Seven and a half years old.</p>
<p><em>Where do you live?</em></p>
<p>Washington, D.C.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5788704495/" title="peace by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3425/5788704495_ee32e98103.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="peace"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5802958344/" title="Memorial Day remembrances by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5073/5802958344_bf84e9c8d0.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Memorial Day remembrances"></a></p>
<p><em>Do you have any pets?</em></p>
<p>Yes. They are two cats. One&#8217;s Katy, and one&#8217;s Lily.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5365824673/" title="snuggling with Lettuce &amp; Katy by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5041/5365824673_33c22a93df.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="snuggling with Lettuce &amp; Katy"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4825536132/" title="in the light by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4120/4825536132_be3d9a9edb.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="in the light"></a></p>
<p><em>Who do you like to play with?</em></p>
<p>My little sister.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6735025311/" title="hitching a ride on the plasmacar by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7163/6735025311_19e6cb7cbe.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="hitching a ride on the plasmacar"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6657574661/" title="bathing in balloons by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7007/6657574661_0a8bd715f8.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="bathing in balloons"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite cereal?</em></p>
<p>Uh&#8230;Lucky Charms. I also like Reese&#8217;s Puffs.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite vegetable?</em></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t really know. No, wait&#8212;it&#8217;s corn. That&#8217;s my favorite vegetable.</p>
<p><em>You know corn is actually a grain. </em></p>
<p>Oh. Heh. Whoops.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5578954852/" title="Annalie's salad bar plate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5174/5578954852_a90a590878.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie's salad bar plate"></a></p>
<p><em>Do you have a favorite vegetable?</em></p>
<p>I especially like broccoli cheese soup. I know what fruit is my favorite, though. It is an APPLE.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;d say you probably eat at least one apple every day, don&#8217;t you?</em></p>
<p>Uh-huh. Maybe more!</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite drink?</em></p>
<p>My favorite drink is&#8230;fruit punch. Because it&#8217;s combined with a few fruits and berries. It&#8217;s really good. But I also like root beer. I actually have quite a few favorite drinks, like apple juice, Diet Rite, Sierra Mist, ginger ale.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite snack?</em></p>
<p>I have to say my favorite snack is perhaps maybe apples and peanut butter. No, just apples. I also really like Lunchables! I guess I have quite a few snacks I like.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite toy?</em></p>
<p>My Little Ponies.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite book?</em></p>
<p>Right now, my favorite books are the <a href="http://www.usborne.com/catalogue/catalogue.aspx?cat=1&#038;area=H&#038;subcat=HR&#038;id=2009">Gladiators</a> book and the <a href="http://www.usborne.com/catalogue/catalogue.aspx?id=2071">Underwear</a> book.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6762688985/" title="gladiators-underwear by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7155/6762688985_60ff618ddf.jpg" width="500" height="368" alt="gladiators-underwear"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite TV Show?</em></p>
<p>Pokemon.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite movie?</em></p>
<p>Have I ever seen Mr. Popper&#8217;s Penguins?</p>
<p><em>No, we read the book. </em></p>
<p>Oh yeah. My favorite movie is&#8230;I like <a href="http://press.discovery.com/asia-pacific/dsc/programs/cellar-skeletons-pompeiis-living-dead/">that movie about Pompeii</a> we watched on Netflix. Also, <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1564349/">Dolphin Tale</a>.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite game?</em></p>
<p>Animal Adoption. It&#8217;s a game where you can play with two people or more. You see, each person takes a turn being the person who&#8217;s going to adopt an animal. And the other person pretends to be a dog or cat or something. And you adopt them! Each person has to get a turn being a pet and the person. Usually I play this game with <a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/">Bug</a>.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite restaurant?</em></p>
<p>Wheatfields, because I love their cheese fondue, a doodle-a-doo!</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite holiday?</em></p>
<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day, because you can make crafts and you get to make cookies, and it&#8217;s just fun.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5445924492/" title="My sassy Valentine by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4112/5445924492_c4c95ff413.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="My sassy Valentine"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5445923934/" title="Elliora finds supervising the art boring by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5171/5445923934_757b4fda49.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Elliora finds supervising the art boring"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite animal?</em></p>
<p>Cheetah and whale shark. I also like certain species of turtles, and dolphins.</p>
<p><em>If you could change your name, what name would you choose?</em></p>
<p>Grace. It&#8217;s majestic and beautiful.</p>
<p><em>What do you love about each person in our family?</em></p>
<p>I love Katy because she is very strong-willed and she can take Elliora grabbing at her. I like Lily because she&#8217;s very calm and like a queen. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6199588187/" title="petting Katy by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6152/6199588187_5f7701d217.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="petting Katy"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5618006101/" title="Lily by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5147/5618006101_a361fde642.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Lily"></a></p>
<p>I love Elliora because she&#8217;s so cute and she&#8217;s FEARLESS, not afraid of anything. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6361969655/" title="Annalie &amp; Elliora in the leaf pile by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6054/6361969655_6420910185.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie &amp; Elliora in the leaf pile"></a></p>
<p>I love Mama because she can make me blankets and other stuff, and I love to bake with her and her cooking&#8217;s really good. I love Dad because he does stuff a lot with me and he plays video games with me and he&#8217;s silly and makes me laugh. That&#8217;s it. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6096222661/" title="Annalie and me by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6189/6096222661_cfb27c2939.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie and me"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5705598047/" title="love this shot of these two by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2435/5705598047_e7aae296b8.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="love this shot of these two"></a></p>
<p>I love that I am very good at dancing and my sense of humor.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5917578948/" title="floaty-scarf dancing by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6140/5917578948_2810a476eb.jpg" width="248" height="372"  alt="floaty-scarf dancing"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6149002331/" title="this is her &quot;something&quot; look by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6155/6149002331_68186909b5.jpg" width="248" height="372"  alt="this is her &quot;something&quot; look"></a></p>
<p><em>Where would you like to go on vacation this year?</em></p>
<p>Hawaii.</p>
<p>Guess what. We ARE going to Hawaii this summer, to meet up with <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/out-of-my-mind/">Lauren</a>.</p>
<p>Yay!</p>
<p><em>What are some of your wishes for this year?</em></p>
<p>I wanna learn how to swim and dive better. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6098530013/" title="waterpark glee by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6192/6098530013_f97d05ab6c.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="waterpark glee"></a></p>
<p><em>Thanks for the interview, Annalie!</em></p>
<p>Uh-huh. Bye!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5917579124/" title="self-portrait of Annalie and portrait of Elliora by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6129/5917579124_dcee8411fd.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="self-portrait of Annalie and portrait of Elliora"></a><br />
<em><font size="1">Annalie&#8217;s self-portrait, age 7, and a portrait of Elliora, age 8 months</font></em></p>
<p><em>Inspiration for this interview originally came from <a href="http://blissfullydomestic.com/blissful-kids/new-years-interview-for-kids/">New Year&#8217;s Interview for Kids</a> at Blissfully Domestic (via <a href="http://belladia.typepad.com/crafty_crow/2009/01/yearly-intervie.html">The Crafty Crow</a>).  </p>
<p>I did this interview in <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2009/">2009</a>, <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2010/">2010</a>, and <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2011/">2011</a> too.</em></p>
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		<title>40th birthday, 40 pieces of mail!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 04:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bethany actually</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My good friend Jen turned 40 a couple of months ago. I wanted to give her something special, but what? Jen knits and crochets beautiful things for money and for fun, so I didn&#8217;t feel the need to crochet her something. She and her husband already own several dottery mugs and things I&#8217;ve painted for [...]]]></description>
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<p>My good friend <a href="http://chasingthefirefly.wordpress.com/">Jen</a> turned 40 a couple of months ago. I wanted to give her something special, but what? Jen <a href="http://www.bythemoonlightcreations.com/">knits and crochets</a> beautiful things for money and for fun, so I didn&#8217;t feel the need to crochet her something. She and her husband already own several dottery mugs and things I&#8217;ve painted for them over the years. They live across the country from me, and they&#8217;re moving next summer so Jen has been in the process of paring down her family&#8217;s belongings for a while. I wanted to send something that she would really enjoy, something that wouldn&#8217;t be just one more thing she&#8217;d be annoyed to pack next summer. </p>
<p>I was pondering my options when I remembered the photo messages I used to send to far-away friends when I was a kid. My mom would take photos of me holding up a series of signs, each sign with a word or phrase on it. Put together, all the photos would make a complete message. I used to really have fun with it, dressing in different crazy outfits and posing in silly places. I&#8217;d send the photos one at a time over the course of a couple of weeks. </p>
<p>And then I had my brilliant idea. I would send Jen 40 pieces of mail for her birthday! Who doesn&#8217;t love getting mail? Who doesn&#8217;t feel that little thrill when they see an envelope in the mailbox that&#8217;s not a bill or a mailer advertising the new carpet-cleaning company? I could send postcards, letters, even the occasional small care package. It wouldn&#8217;t break the bank since stamps are relatively cheap, and I already own tons of rarely-used stationery. I would be extending the birthday joy for more than a month&#8212;almost two months, as it turned out. And Jen wouldn&#8217;t have a fragile or unwieldy new thing to pack (or to feel guilty about getting rid of). Win-win-win!</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t tell Jen what I was doing. I just started sending her numbered mail. It only took her about three days to figure it out. She sent me an email (subject: &#8220;Stinker!&#8221;) that read:</p>
<blockquote><p>You&#8217;ve been up to something, haven&#8217;t you?&#8230;It all started to make sense today as my mail started piling up. It was like the ending of an M. Night Shyamalan movie.</p></blockquote>
<p>I think she meant one of the <em>good</em> M. Night Shyamalan movies. At least, I hope she did.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271613916/" title="2/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6052/6271613916_8d4d10c6b5.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="2/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>I sent homemade <a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2011/10/apple-pie-cookies/">cookies</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271089015/" title="4/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6103/6271089015_47653fab80.jpg" width="248" height="165" alt="4/40 - for Jen"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6325318652/" title="15/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6032/6325318652_9760d5b5e2.jpg" width="248" height="165" alt="15/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6356835455/" title="25/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6221/6356835455_ce92e7b243.jpg" width="500" height="331" alt="25/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>Annalie helped out with a couple of drawings and a bookmark.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271087867/" title="1/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6233/6271087867_5edab5cf1e.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="1/40 - for Jen"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6308056064/" title="6/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6229/6308056064_3b05128577.jpg" width="247" height="372" alt="6/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>I sent a few postcards.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6321169023/" title="9/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6221/6321169023_8aa0643194.jpg" width="248" height="165" alt="9/40 - for Jen"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6325318498/" title="11/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6111/6325318498_fb46e8cc14.jpg" width="248" height="165" alt="11/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6330470439/" title="19/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6109/6330470439_669538ea68.jpg" width="248" height="165" alt="19/40 - for Jen"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6350031188/" title="21/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6240/6350031188_00d06e00b3.jpg" width="248" height="165" alt="21/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>Well, lots of postcards, actually.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6330470069/" title="16/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6229/6330470069_08ce23920d.jpg" width="248" height="292" alt="16/40 - for Jen"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6330470103/" title="17/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7142/6639084009_a401e51237.jpg" width="248" height="292" alt="17/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6519830241/" title="29/30 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7003/6519830241_75a5b5e27b.jpg" width="500" height="308" alt="29/30 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6350033318/" title="24/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6041/6350033318_bd81bbab98.jpg" width="248" height="367" alt="24/40 - for Jen"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6356835639/" title="26/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6222/6356835639_032ea35b66.jpg" width="248" height="367" alt="26/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>Lots and lots of postcards.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6271615038/" title="5/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6239/6271615038_729a024509.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="5/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>I helped Jen face her fear of glitter, because I&#8217;m a good friend like that.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6321692692/" title="10/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6043/6321692692_0e34ed8545.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="10/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>I sent her a copy of the soundtrack to <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlyjcHVxhiM">Scrubs: My Musical</a>, so that the next time she&#8217;s stuck in traffic on the 805 with me and <a href="http://girlwithgreencard.blogspot.com/">Sonja</a> for four hours and we insist on singing &#8220;Everything Comes Down to Poo,&#8221; she&#8217;ll be able to sing along.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6321169217/" title="12/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6055/6321169217_f6f10f8bbd.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="12/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>A dime bag of Canadian Smarties. (Inside joke. I told Jen I would send her a box of the Smarties that <a href="http://heymrswilson.net">Jen Wilson</a> had sent me, and Jen said she didn&#8217;t need a whole box, that I should just send her a little bag. I said I&#8217;d send her a dime bag. It&#8230;isn&#8217;t really that funny, I guess. But it was hilarious to us.)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6349284947/" title="23/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6217/6349284947_8a88e87bca.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="23/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>A Nebraska care package, when I was visiting Omaha.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6519830205/" title="34/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7034/6519830205_d44ff28e71.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="34/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>A little bag of jelly beans. This is one of those <a href="http://www.giverslog.com/?tag=happy-mail">13-ounces-or-less things</a>, where I just stuck an address label and postage right on the package and dropped it in the mail. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6519830017/" title="37/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7142/6519830017_e1fe0e7b35.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="37/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>We mailed a little bit of autumn.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6633514603/" title="38/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7021/6633514603_a8c70fd8a3.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="38/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>I slowed down a lot towards the end. Several days went by between each of the last three or four pieces of mail I sent. I was a little sad it was coming to an end. I had a lot of fun with this project, even more fun than I expected. I think I&#8217;ll have to do something like this again sometime.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6633514057/" title="40/40 - for Jen by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7019/6633514057_68d2748e3b_z.jpg" width="500" height="600" alt="40/40 - for Jen"></a></p>
<p>Finally, six weeks after Jen&#8217;s actual birthday, I was sending #40. And what else could possibly be good enough for the final piece of birthday mail except some <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/really-really-ridiculously-good-apricot-cookies/">really, really ridiculously good apricot cookies</a>?</p>
<p>Happy birthday, Jen!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157627956121556/with/6633514603/" title="40 pieces of mail, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7002/6633547721_15e445f9bc.jpg" width="500" height="317" alt="40 pieces of mail mosaic"></a><br />
<em>All the mail I sent is in the Flickr photoset <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157627956121556/with/6633514057/">40 pieces of mail</a>.</em></p>
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		<title>Look at that, it&#8217;s a new year</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 04:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bethany actually</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Annalie drew these teeny portraits of our family on something, and I knew immediately I would use them for return-address labels on our Christmas cards. She draws stuff like this all the time that surprises and delights me. It&#8217;s fairly awesome. You know what else is fairly awesome? You guys are. Thank you for sticking [...]]]></description>
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<p>Annalie drew these teeny portraits of our family on something, and I knew immediately I would use them for return-address labels on our Christmas cards. She draws stuff like this all the time that surprises and delights me. It&#8217;s fairly awesome.</p>
<p>You know what else is fairly awesome? You guys are. Thank you for sticking with me and continuing to read through the past year of baby-induced blog neglect; supporting me and saying kind things when I am frustrated or troubled; cheering me up with your funny stories when I need to laugh; and just generally being some of the nicest people on the internets. I wish each and every one of you a happy, healthy new year full of good things. May 2012 be the year you learn to tango, go on your dream vacation, see your kids succeed wildly, eat more vegetables, own your beauty, read life-changing books, find a new favorite drink, or whatever it is you think about when you wish upon a star. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6617421169/" title="2011 Christmas card by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7143/6617421169_9bb28be070.jpg" width="500" height="357" alt="2011 Christmas card"></a><br />
<em><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6617421169/sizes/o/in/photostream/">View large</a>.</em></p>
<p>p.s. New-old banner, by <a href="http://www.secret-agent-josephine.com">Brenda</a> as always. </p>
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		<title>this kind of sums up my week</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 07:20:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a bowl I painted for Bex and Jeremy. Bex commissioned me to paint it and probably thought she was going to pay for it, but they just got engaged and I was going to give it to them as an engagement present. I&#8217;ve had it all wrapped carefully in bubble wrap and sitting [...]]]></description>
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<p>This is a bowl I painted for <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bex/">Bex</a> and Jeremy. Bex commissioned me to paint it and probably thought she was going to pay for it, but they just got engaged and I was going to give it to them as an engagement present. I&#8217;ve had it all wrapped carefully in bubble wrap and sitting in a box for the past week, just waiting for me to make another batch of <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/really-really-ridiculously-good-apricot-cookies/">apricot cookies</a> so I could include a few of those in the box. Last night I baked, so tonight I thought I&#8217;d finish getting the package ready to mail.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6598819983/" title="broken soft kitty bowl by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0"  src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7161/6598819983_2f6739cfac.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="broken soft kitty bowl"></a></p>
<p>When I picked up the box, one of the flaps caught on something, and before I could stop it the box tipped sideways and the bowl flipped out and landed upside-down on the hardwood floor. I held my breath as I picked it up, not sure what I&#8217;d find, because I&#8217;ve dropped pottery before from greater heights with no harm done. But this time it was broken into many pieces plus dozens of chips and a fine layer of dust. It wasn&#8217;t even superglueable.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry, Bex and Jeremy. It&#8217;s going to be a little while longer before I can ship your bowl to you. *Sigh.*</p>
<p>This sort of sums up my week, actually. I&#8217;m not sure which is worse: going into the holiday season with a cold, or thinking right up till the afternoon of Christmas Eve that I was going to have a healthy, snot-free Christmas for once and then getting knocked FLAT by a cold. I was over the worst of it by the end of Christmas Day, but I&#8217;m still coughing and sleeping more than normal and feeling worn-down. Annalie was sick all this week, too. It was pretty much a bummer. Bah humbug.</p>
<p>The good news is, it&#8217;s almost the weekend. And Troy has leave all next week. So at least I&#8217;ll be able to catch up on my 7 Days posts, and go paint another bowl soon.</p>
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		<title>Day 1 &#8211; shiny ornament outside Trader Joe&#8217;s</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 19:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bethany actually</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Helloooo! I think this is the first time in a year I&#8217;m genuinely excited about 7 Days. And (touch/knock on wood) it&#8217;s December and I&#8217;m not sick. It&#8217;s probably because I caved and got a flu shot this year. I was so sick all last fall and winter, and I didn&#8217;t want to repeat that. [...]]]></description>
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<p>Helloooo! I think this is the first time in a year I&#8217;m genuinely excited about <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays/">7 Days</a>. And (touch/knock on wood) it&#8217;s December and <em>I&#8217;m not sick.</em> It&#8217;s probably because I caved and got a flu shot this year. I was so sick all last fall and winter, and I didn&#8217;t want to repeat that.</p>
<p>So. Let&#8217;s do this thing!</p>
<p>I saw these jumbo ornaments hanging outside Trader Joe&#8217;s last week and instantly made a mental note to use them for a self-portrait. It was rather windy so it was tricky to get a shot that wasn&#8217;t blurry. But I persevered.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/annalie2004/6549666519/" title="Day 1 - secret surprise by annalie actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7148/6549666519_9af8d7f077.jpg" width="375" height="500" alt="Day 1 - secret surprise"></a></p>
<p>What Annalie had to say about her Day 1 photo, &#8220;secret surprise&#8221;:</p>
<blockquote><p>Some of you looking at this photo are going to get a special surprise from us in the mail, so I can&#8217;t tell you what I&#8217;m mailing. But have you ever seen anybody mail a jar before? We mailed <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5642783140/in/photostream/">Easter eggs</a> once, and my mom mailed a small package of <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6519830205/in/set-72157627956121556">jelly beans</a>!</p></blockquote>
<p>See the series <a href="http://www.giverslog.com/?tag=happy-mail">13 ounces or less</a> at <a href="http://www.giverslog.com/">giverslog</a> for more about this. I&#8217;ll blog the jars eventually, once they&#8217;ve reached their recipients.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6549710521/" title="cheesing up at Mama from the grass by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7165/6549710521_6905fc4447.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="cheesing up at Mama from the grass"></a></p>
<p>This morning we went to the post office and the grocery store. We&#8217;ve been spending quite a few mornings running errands lately, doing Christmas-related things. Elliora and Annalie have both been troupers, taking multiple trips to the grocery store, post office, and Target in stride, with only the rare hunger- or exhaustion-induced tantrum. Now that Elliora is older and walking, she and Annalie have a lot of fun with each other and keeping each other entertained during otherwise dull moments. Apparently having a sister is awesome.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6550238023/" title="morning sisters by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7145/6550238023_057e0bd3a2.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="morning sisters"></a></p>
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		<title>life overload</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 07:09:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>bethany actually</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was talking to Troy last night about how life just feels so&#8230;relentless lately. Of course having a toddler in the house, even one who (touchwoodfingerscrossedtwirlaroundthreetimesandclucklikeachicken) is mostly sleeping through the night, is a lot of work. Troy is still working long hours. I&#8217;m still homeschooling Annalie. And it&#8217;s the holidays, which means extra items [...]]]></description>
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<p>I was talking to Troy last night about how life just feels so&#8230;<em>relentless</em> lately. Of course having a toddler in the house, even one who <font size="1">(touchwoodfingerscrossedtwirlaroundthreetimesandclucklikeachicken)</font> is mostly sleeping through the night, is a lot of work. Troy is still working long hours. I&#8217;m still homeschooling Annalie. And it&#8217;s the holidays, which means extra items on everyone&#8217;s to-do list. Especially with the days getting dark so early, it seems like I am constantly running behind, that I never reach the end of my list. </p>
<p>Troy suggested that maybe right now, just for a little while, I need to cut back on one or two things. I agreed that sounded good in theory. Then I realized: I&#8217;m two weeks behind on Flickring photos (which I do mainly <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/this-ones-for-all-the-grandparents-out-there/">for the grandparents</a>, so I&#8217;m feeling bad about that). I hadn&#8217;t blogged in eight days. I couldn&#8217;t remember the last time I&#8217;d worked on any of the three big crocheting projects in progress. Aside from some Christmas treats, I&#8217;ve barely even cooked dinner in weeks. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6536250829/" title="7 Days is coming! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7159/6536250829_f0eb7a4584.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="7 Days is coming!"></a><br />
<em>Yes, I wrote backwards on my hand just to remind you. You&#8217;re welcome.</em></p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m thinking that part of my problem is that I have not been doing much of anything creative lately. Luckily, it&#8217;s almost time for <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/sevendays">7 Days</a> again. (Note that it starts in the middle of the week this time, this coming  <strong>Wednesday</strong>, the 21st.)  That always provides a much-needed jolt of creative energy, not to mention it&#8217;s like a quarterly reunion of old friends at this point. </p>
<p>Whatever. It&#8217;s life, sometimes it&#8217;s crazy, sometimes it&#8217;s CRAZY, and usually it&#8217;s fun. Christmas is only a week away, and <font size="1">(throwsaltovermyshoulderwishonastarwearsomegarlic)</font> we&#8217;re all healthy. We&#8217;re not traveling this year so we&#8217;re avoiding that stress. Things will get better and I&#8217;ll crochet and blog and cook more again someday. This is only a season.</p>
<p>And hey, it&#8217;s a season with lots of pretty lights to enjoy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6519830165/" title="it's not Christmas without some Christmas-light bokeh by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7159/6519830165_3e7c7e43a0.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="it's not Christmas without some Christmas-light bokeh"></a></p>
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		<title>Elliora&#8217;s ONE!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 05:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>dottery gift ideas for geeks</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 21:21:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did you know that today is Small Business Saturday? I figured that would be the perfect time to finally get around to updating my Etsy shop with all those pottery pieces I&#8217;ve been meaning to list for ages, starting with the funky square dottery dish up there. Most of the rest of these are from [...]]]></description>
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<p>Did you know that today is <a href="http://smallbusinesssaturday.com/">Small Business Saturday</a>? I figured that would be the perfect time to finally get around to updating my Etsy shop with all those pottery pieces I&#8217;ve been meaning to list for ages, starting with the <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/87103436/funky-colorful-square-dotty-dish-be">funky square dottery dish</a> up there.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5917018591/" title="Princess Bride quote mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6016/5917018591_b1e1375feb.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Princess Bride quote mug"></a></p>
<p>Most of the rest of these are from the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157626436607115/with/6221947284/">Geek Dottery</a> collection, starting with a <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/77093228/geek-dottery-mug-princess-bride-quote"><em>Princess Bride</em> quote mug</a>. I painted this on a day when I needed to remind myself that sometimes, life <strong>is</strong> pain, and anyone who says differently is selling something.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6250929502/" title="'Castle' quote dottery mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6102/6250929502_0526dabafc.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="'Castle' quote dottery mug"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/87100875/geek-dottery-mug-castle-quote-if-you">&#8220;Castle&#8221; quote dottery mug</a>. Painted with one of my favorite quotes from the TV show <a href="http://beta.abc.go.com/shows/castle">Castle</a>, starring Nathan Fillion and Stana Katic: &#8220;If you don&#8217;t believe in even the possibility of magic, you&#8217;ll never ever find it.&#8221; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6221947284/" title="Time for some thrilling heroics. by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6153/6221947284_634543844c.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Time for some thrilling heroics."></a></p>
<p>Jayne Cobb&#8212;the sarcastic, uncouth, thuggish mercenary&#8212;is, against all reason, probably my favorite character from <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0303461/">Firefly</a> and <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0379786/">Serenity</a>. I think that&#8217;s mostly because of the fantastic job Adam Baldwin does of creating a character who&#8217;s loveable and possibly treacherous all at the same time. Some of my favorite Jayne quotes are on this <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/87102326/geek-dottery-mug-fireflyserenity-jayne?ref=v1_other_1">Jayne Cobb Firefly/Serenity mug</a>: &#8220;Time for some thrilling heroics,&#8221; &#8220;Shiny. Let&#8217;s be bad guys,&#8221; and &#8220;Pretty cunning, don&#8217;tcha think?&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6250401257/" title="Firefly/Serenity dottery mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6224/6250401257_fc0a8d3297.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Firefly/Serenity dottery mug"></a></p>
<p>Any Browncoat&#8217;d be proud to own this <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/87100480/geek-dottery-mug-fireflyserenity-quotes">Firefly/Serenity mug</a> painted with two of the &#8216;Verse&#8217;s best lines: Mal&#8217;s &#8220;I aim to misbehave,&#8221; and Jayne&#8217;s &#8220;Shiny. Let&#8217;s be bad guys.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6250401723/" title="'do what you love' dotty yellow mug by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6232/6250401723_a9f9622ef1.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="'do what you love' dotty yellow mug"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6250929850/" title="do what you love ? by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6225/6250929850_8bdc986e01.jpg" width="500" height="334" alt="do what you love ?"></a></p>
<p>One of my favorite blog posts of Brenda&#8217;s is about how you should always &#8220;<a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/2006/12/28/you-do-what-you-love/">do what you love</a>.&#8221; I love that, so I <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/87102725/dottery-mug-do-what-you-love">painted it on a mug</a>. </p>
<p>Happy shopping, in <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/bethanyactually?ref=si_shop">my Etsy shop</a> or any other small business of your choice!</p>
<p>Oh, I also wanted to mention that I recently created a <a href="http://www.facebook.com/bethanyactually.blog">Facebook page</a> for my blog. If you&#8217;re into that kind of thing, feel free to like it! (There&#8217;s actually a Like Box over there in the sidebar for you to click.)</p>
<p>Have a great weekend, y&#8217;all.</p>
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		<title>giving thanks for the happy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 16:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[These are just a few of the many things I&#8217;m thankful for today, as we clean the house and prep food for my mom&#8217;s arrival tomorrow and our delayed Thanksgiving feast. And I&#8217;m thankful for you! Without all of you&#8212;reading and commenting, encouraging me and venting with me and laughing with me at the craziness [...]]]></description>
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<p>These are just a few of the many things I&#8217;m thankful for today, as we clean the house and prep food for my mom&#8217;s arrival tomorrow and our delayed Thanksgiving feast. And I&#8217;m thankful for you! Without all of you&#8212;reading and commenting, encouraging me and venting with me and laughing with me at the craziness of life&#8212;this blog wouldn&#8217;t be nearly as much fun to write. Whether or not you&#8217;re in the U.S., I wish you happiness today, and a grateful heart.</p>
<p>What are you thankful for today?</p>
<p><em>(Special thanks to my dear <a href="http://zebrabelly.wordpress.com/">Bonnie</a> for starting the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/1635752@N23/">finding happy</a> project in the first place.)</em></p>
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		<title>Happy cuties, happy Halloween!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 17:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This time of year in Omaha is so pretty! Yesterday we went trick-or-treating in the Old Market with friends. Annalie and Elliora are both peacock princesses this year. Let&#8217;s just leave the fact that peacocks are male out of it, mmkay? Because look! Cutie-pie peacock princesses! This morning before Ben took Aurora over to her [...]]]></description>
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<p>This time of year in Omaha is so pretty!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6299044301/" title="sister peacock princesses by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6239/6299044301_8c535e365f.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="sister peacock princesses"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6299576792/" title="balloons are fun! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6035/6299576792_3b6ef7ba6a.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="balloons are fun!"></a></p>
<p>Yesterday we went trick-or-treating in the Old Market with friends. Annalie and Elliora are both peacock princesses this year. Let&#8217;s just leave the fact that peacocks are male out of it, mmkay? Because look! Cutie-pie peacock princesses!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6299576878/" title="Aurora in ponytails and Annalie by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6238/6299576878_c03543ca0b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Aurora in ponytails and Annalie"></a></p>
<p>This morning before Ben took Aurora over to her mom&#8217;s house, I put her hair up in two ponytails, which she thought was pretty neat. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6299576992/" title="Halloween sisters by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6055/6299576992_196d120b7f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Halloween sisters"></a></p>
<p>I like this shot because you can see Annalie&#8217;s blue nails and Elliora&#8217;s patience with her bossy big sister.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6299577070/" title="Happy Halloween! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6117/6299577070_e77428ffc7.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Happy Halloween!"></a></p>
<p>I look like I&#8217;m modestly covering my chest, but really I&#8217;m just resting my hand on the back of the bench in a weird position. It just <em>looks</em> like I&#8217;m a maiden aunt unaccustomed to showing so much décolletage.</p>
<p>Happy Halloween, all!</p>
<p><em>P.S. I&#8217;m not far away from <strong>10,000 comments</strong> (real ones, not counting spam) on this blog! I think the 10,000th commenter is going to win a piece of pottery of their choice, or maybe something crocheted, just to thank you all for the great comments over the past four years. So keep those comments coming, YOU could be lucky #10,000!</em></p>
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