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		<title>Remind you of anyone?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 05:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Me at 1 year old, in 1976.]]></description>
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<p>Me at 1 year old, in 1976. </p>
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		<title>an interview with Annnalie</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 05:21:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is your name? Annalie. How old are you? Seven and a half years old. Where do you live? Washington, D.C. Do you have any pets? Yes. They are two cats. One&#8217;s Katy, and one&#8217;s Lily. Who do you like to play with? My little sister. What’s your favorite cereal? Uh&#8230;Lucky Charms. I also like [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6701124729/" title="she seems to have lost something by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7150/6701124729_56aaf2f354.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="she seems to have lost something"></a></p>
<p><em>What is your name?</em></p>
<p>Annalie.</p>
<p><em>How old are you?</em></p>
<p>Seven and a half years old.</p>
<p><em>Where do you live?</em></p>
<p>Washington, D.C.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5788704495/" title="peace by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3425/5788704495_ee32e98103.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="peace"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5802958344/" title="Memorial Day remembrances by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5073/5802958344_bf84e9c8d0.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Memorial Day remembrances"></a></p>
<p><em>Do you have any pets?</em></p>
<p>Yes. They are two cats. One&#8217;s Katy, and one&#8217;s Lily.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5365824673/" title="snuggling with Lettuce &amp; Katy by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5041/5365824673_33c22a93df.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="snuggling with Lettuce &amp; Katy"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4825536132/" title="in the light by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4120/4825536132_be3d9a9edb.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="in the light"></a></p>
<p><em>Who do you like to play with?</em></p>
<p>My little sister.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6735025311/" title="hitching a ride on the plasmacar by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7163/6735025311_19e6cb7cbe.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="hitching a ride on the plasmacar"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6657574661/" title="bathing in balloons by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7007/6657574661_0a8bd715f8.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="bathing in balloons"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite cereal?</em></p>
<p>Uh&#8230;Lucky Charms. I also like Reese&#8217;s Puffs.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite vegetable?</em></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t really know. No, wait&#8212;it&#8217;s corn. That&#8217;s my favorite vegetable.</p>
<p><em>You know corn is actually a grain. </em></p>
<p>Oh. Heh. Whoops.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5578954852/" title="Annalie's salad bar plate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5174/5578954852_a90a590878.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie's salad bar plate"></a></p>
<p><em>Do you have a favorite vegetable?</em></p>
<p>I especially like broccoli cheese soup. I know what fruit is my favorite, though. It is an APPLE.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;d say you probably eat at least one apple every day, don&#8217;t you?</em></p>
<p>Uh-huh. Maybe more!</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite drink?</em></p>
<p>My favorite drink is&#8230;fruit punch. Because it&#8217;s combined with a few fruits and berries. It&#8217;s really good. But I also like root beer. I actually have quite a few favorite drinks, like apple juice, Diet Rite, Sierra Mist, ginger ale.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite snack?</em></p>
<p>I have to say my favorite snack is perhaps maybe apples and peanut butter. No, just apples. I also really like Lunchables! I guess I have quite a few snacks I like.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite toy?</em></p>
<p>My Little Ponies.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite book?</em></p>
<p>Right now, my favorite books are the <a href="http://www.usborne.com/catalogue/catalogue.aspx?cat=1&#038;area=H&#038;subcat=HR&#038;id=2009">Gladiators</a> book and the <a href="http://www.usborne.com/catalogue/catalogue.aspx?id=2071">Underwear</a> book.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6762688985/" title="gladiators-underwear by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7155/6762688985_60ff618ddf.jpg" width="500" height="368" alt="gladiators-underwear"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite TV Show?</em></p>
<p>Pokemon.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite movie?</em></p>
<p>Have I ever seen Mr. Popper&#8217;s Penguins?</p>
<p><em>No, we read the book. </em></p>
<p>Oh yeah. My favorite movie is&#8230;I like <a href="http://press.discovery.com/asia-pacific/dsc/programs/cellar-skeletons-pompeiis-living-dead/">that movie about Pompeii</a> we watched on Netflix. Also, <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1564349/">Dolphin Tale</a>.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite game?</em></p>
<p>Animal Adoption. It&#8217;s a game where you can play with two people or more. You see, each person takes a turn being the person who&#8217;s going to adopt an animal. And the other person pretends to be a dog or cat or something. And you adopt them! Each person has to get a turn being a pet and the person. Usually I play this game with <a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/">Bug</a>.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite restaurant?</em></p>
<p>Wheatfields, because I love their cheese fondue, a doodle-a-doo!</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite holiday?</em></p>
<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day, because you can make crafts and you get to make cookies, and it&#8217;s just fun.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5445924492/" title="My sassy Valentine by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4112/5445924492_c4c95ff413.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="My sassy Valentine"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5445923934/" title="Elliora finds supervising the art boring by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5171/5445923934_757b4fda49.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="Elliora finds supervising the art boring"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite animal?</em></p>
<p>Cheetah and whale shark. I also like certain species of turtles, and dolphins.</p>
<p><em>If you could change your name, what name would you choose?</em></p>
<p>Grace. It&#8217;s majestic and beautiful.</p>
<p><em>What do you love about each person in our family?</em></p>
<p>I love Katy because she is very strong-willed and she can take Elliora grabbing at her. I like Lily because she&#8217;s very calm and like a queen. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6199588187/" title="petting Katy by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6152/6199588187_5f7701d217.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="petting Katy"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5618006101/" title="Lily by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5147/5618006101_a361fde642.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Lily"></a></p>
<p>I love Elliora because she&#8217;s so cute and she&#8217;s FEARLESS, not afraid of anything. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6361969655/" title="Annalie &amp; Elliora in the leaf pile by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6054/6361969655_6420910185.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie &amp; Elliora in the leaf pile"></a></p>
<p>I love Mama because she can make me blankets and other stuff, and I love to bake with her and her cooking&#8217;s really good. I love Dad because he does stuff a lot with me and he plays video games with me and he&#8217;s silly and makes me laugh. That&#8217;s it. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6096222661/" title="Annalie and me by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6189/6096222661_cfb27c2939.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Annalie and me"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5705598047/" title="love this shot of these two by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2435/5705598047_e7aae296b8.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="love this shot of these two"></a></p>
<p>I love that I am very good at dancing and my sense of humor.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5917578948/" title="floaty-scarf dancing by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6140/5917578948_2810a476eb.jpg" width="248" height="372"  alt="floaty-scarf dancing"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6149002331/" title="this is her &quot;something&quot; look by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6155/6149002331_68186909b5.jpg" width="248" height="372"  alt="this is her &quot;something&quot; look"></a></p>
<p><em>Where would you like to go on vacation this year?</em></p>
<p>Hawaii.</p>
<p>Guess what. We ARE going to Hawaii this summer, to meet up with <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/out-of-my-mind/">Lauren</a>.</p>
<p>Yay!</p>
<p><em>What are some of your wishes for this year?</em></p>
<p>I wanna learn how to swim and dive better. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6098530013/" title="waterpark glee by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6192/6098530013_f97d05ab6c.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="waterpark glee"></a></p>
<p><em>Thanks for the interview, Annalie!</em></p>
<p>Uh-huh. Bye!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6855426817/" title="happy thing: Annalie's happy self-portrait by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7064/6855426817_0d0bdb5407.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: Annalie's happy self-portrait"></a><br />
<em><font size="1">Annalie&#8217;s happy self-portrait, age 7</font></em></p>
<p><em>Inspiration for this interview originally came from <a href="http://blissfullydomestic.com/blissful-kids/new-years-interview-for-kids/">New Year&#8217;s Interview for Kids</a> at Blissfully Domestic (via <a href="http://belladia.typepad.com/crafty_crow/2009/01/yearly-intervie.html">The Crafty Crow</a>).  </p>
<p>I did this interview in <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2009/">2009</a>, <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2010/">2010</a>, and <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2011/">2011</a> too.</em></p>
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		<title>What could you do with $1.60?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 01:31:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What was your favorite children&#8217;s book? &#8212;Niki I could easily make a list of my favorite hundred children&#8217;s books. But instead I&#8217;m going with the first one that leapt to mind. The Saturdays, by Elizabeth Enright. This book was so important to me as a kid that I can still remember coming across it on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What was your favorite children&#8217;s book?</strong> &#8212;<a href="http://nikirudolph.com">Niki</a></p>
<p>I could easily make a list of my favorite <em>hundred</em> children&#8217;s books. But instead I&#8217;m going with the first one that leapt to mind.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/6487400977/" title="The-Saturdays-Elizabeth-Enright by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7142/6487400977_4dfd6ac3da.jpg" width="321" height="475" alt="The-Saturdays-Elizabeth-Enright"></a></p>
<p><strong><em><a href="http://childrensbookalmanac.com/2011/07/the-saturdays/">The Saturdays</a></em>, by <a href="http://us.macmillan.com/author/elizabethenright">Elizabeth Enright</a>.</strong></p>
<p>This book was so important to me as a kid that I can still remember coming across it on the shelf in my elementary-school library. I remember which bookcase it was on, and that I had to reach up to pull the book down. I remember reading the copy on the book jacket and having my interest piqued by the idea of a family of four kids&#8212;aspiring actress Mona, 13; mischeivous, piano-playing Rush, 12; dreamy artist and dancer Randy, 10; and solid, unflappable Oliver, 6&#8212;forming their own club. (I only have one brother, and although we love each other, we&#8217;re different enough that as kids we spent more time bickering and annoying each other than playing together. I could only barely imagine a family where your best friends were your siblings.) Then I opened the book and read the first page, and was immediately charmed by the description of these kids sitting in their attic, listening to the rain hissing and sizzling as it came down the chimney and complaining about how bored they were. I could relate to that! Also, I loved rain even back then, so that was guaranteed to pull me in.</p>
<p>Then I kept reading, as they discussed and rejected ways to relieve their boredom. They decided, at Randy&#8217;s suggestion, to pool their weekly allowances and take turns using the whole amount to have an adventure each Saturday afternoon. They came up with a clever name for their club: the Independent Saturday Afternoon Adventure Club, which they could airily refer to as &#8220;I.S.A.A.C.&#8221; around others. I goggled even back then in 1982 at the amount: adding up each of the older kids&#8217; allowance of fifty cents each and Oliver&#8217;s ten cents, they would &#8220;have an adventure&#8221; every Saturday with the grand sum of $1.60. <em>One dollar. And sixty cents.</em> I don&#8217;t think any economics lesson could have taught me more memorably and clearly about inflation since 1941 (the year the book was published).</p>
<p>The adventures they had were fantastic to my seven-year-old Midwestern self, too. Randy went to the art museum and wound up having tea and <em>petit fours</em> (the first time I&#8217;d heard of those) at the cafe with a slightly mysterious old lady who&#8217;d known their father as a boy, and hearing all about the time she ran away with the circus when she was a girl in Paris. Rush took the bus to the Met to see an opera (a 12-year-old boy, voluntarily going to an opera!?) and ended up rescuing a bedraggled stray dog whom they adopted and named (natch) Isaac. Mona went to a beauty salon and recklessly decided to cut off her waist-length braids, accidentally winding up with a scandalous blood-red manicure which eventually had to be removed at home with perfume (you better believe I tried that a time or two). Oliver hoarded up the dimes the other kids gave him and calmly went to the circus all by himself one day, causing a panic at home when they realized it. After that they decided to go on their adventures as a group, for safety.</p>
<p>This book used to make me long to live in New York in 1941, when I would have been allowed to go operas and museums by myself at the age of 10 or 11. I still re-read <em>The Saturdays</em> and <a href="http://us.macmillan.com/series/TheMelendyQuartet">the other Melendy family books</a> every year or so, and they still kind of make me feel that way. What strikes me most about them now, though, are two things in particular: (1) these children in 1941 aren&#8217;t really that different from kids now&#8212;they bickered and played with their siblings, complained about eating vegetables and doing their chores, swam in the summer and ate ice cream till their stomachs ached; and (2) they didn&#8217;t have a television. Sometimes I think my slight disdain for television might stem from reading these books about all the amazing things they did back when they didn&#8217;t have TV. I doubt I.S.A.A.C. would ever have been invented if there had been a little black-and-white television in their attic playroom that first rainy Saturday.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been waiting for seven and a half years for Annalie to be old enough for me to read <em>The Saturdays</em> out loud to her. I think 2012 might be the year. I can hardly wait.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m taking part in a blogging group called <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Reverb-Broads/269777846407671?sk=wall">Reverb Broads</a> that will be suggesting daily blogging prompts this December. I won&#8217;t do it every day, but I&#8217;ll be using them occasionally throughout the month as they tickle my fancy. If you want to join in, feel free! Go <a href="http://bravelyobey.blogspot.com/2011/11/we-want-you.html">here</a> or <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Reverb-Broads/269777846407671?sk=wall">here</a> to learn more.</em></p>
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		<title>can you believe I used to be painfully shy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 04:31:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is the stupidest thing you did this year? What about in your whole life? You can take stupid to mean: embarrassing, dangerous, funny, lame, whatever you consider &#8220;stupid.&#8221; &#8212;Kassie I have very healthy self-esteem which allows me to blithely forget the stupid things I do. At least, I assume that&#8217;s what happens, because I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What is the stupidest thing you did this year? What about in your whole life? You can take stupid to mean: embarrassing, dangerous, funny, lame, whatever you consider &#8220;stupid.&#8221; <a href="http://bravelyobey.blogspot.com">&#8212;Kassie</a></strong></p>
<p>I have very healthy self-esteem which allows me to blithely forget the stupid things I do. At least, I assume that&#8217;s what happens, because I know for a fact that I do stupid stuff all the time (ask my husband, I&#8217;m sure he could tell you a story or ten), but nothing is jumping to mind from this past year. </p>
<p>However, I do vividly remember the moment I realized that looking stupid and being embarrassed was not only not gonna kill me, but that it in fact was even kinda fun. I was 10 years old, it was the last day of fourth grade, and my class was playing games and goofing off after we helped move the chairs and desks from our classroom to storage (I went to a small parochial school so the students were also occasionally slave labor). My friend Jenny, who was super outgoing and hilarious and had inexplicably picked me to be her best friend in our class, offered to lead everyone in the motions of some song we were singing, and without asking she grabbed my hand and dragged me to the front of the class with her. </p>
<p>Now, back then I was shy. I hated being the center of attention. I hated being <em>looked at</em>. I didn&#8217;t like being singled out for criticism or praise. I just wanted to be left alone to read my book and fade into the wallpaper. The fact that Jenny had dragged me up to the front of the class with her to wave my arms and jump around like a giant dork in front of everyone should have made me freeze and then run for the hills like a scared rabbit. But over the course of that year I had slowly changed. </p>
<p>Being friends with Jenny was a big part of that change. She was so confident and unafraid to be weird and silly, and she was awesome. If someone like her thought it was okay to risk being laughed at, maybe it wasn&#8217;t so bad after all. The other major component of that change was that I&#8217;d moved from a big public school where there were three classes of 30 kids in each grade to a small school where my entire grade only had 12 kids in it. So not only were there fewer people for me to embarrass myself in front of, but they were people who had not known me my whole life. They didn&#8217;t have preconceived notions of who I was and what I would or wouldn&#8217;t do. It&#8217;s always a little easier to break out of a rut when everyone around you doesn&#8217;t keep pushing you back into it.</p>
<p>When Jenny pulled me to the front of the class so I could sing and do the motions to a silly camp song with her, my heart was pounding and my mouth was dry and I felt like I might throw up. But I threw caution to the wind and did it. I sang the heck out of that song (strangely, although I can remember the moment perfectly in other ways, I have no memory of what the song was) and I acted out the stupid motions while everyone was looking at me and laughing good-naturedly as they sang along. </p>
<p>When we were done, I felt idiotic and shaky and completely exhilarated. I couldn&#8217;t believe that I&#8217;d done it. I&#8217;d looked moderately stupid in front of a bunch of my peers and I was still standing and breathing and if anyone was making fun of me I didn&#8217;t even care, because at that moment I started understanding that when you&#8217;re willing to risk looking stupid sometimes, life is a lot more fun.</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m taking part in a blogging group called <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Reverb-Broads/269777846407671?sk=wall">Reverb Broads</a> that will be suggesting daily blogging prompts this December. It&#8217;s unlikely that I&#8217;ll do it every day, but I&#8217;ll be using them occasionally throughout the month as they tickle my fancy. If you want to join in, feel free! Go <a href="http://bravelyobey.blogspot.com/2011/11/we-want-you.html">here</a> or <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Reverb-Broads/269777846407671?sk=wall">here</a> to learn more.</em></p>
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		<title>Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2011 04:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>If the you of today could go back in time and give advice to any of the previous yous, which age would you visit and what would you tell them?</strong> <em>&#8211;<a href="http://kristendomblogs.com/">Kristen</a></em></p>
<p>Dear 18-year-old Bethany,</p>
<p>Look, I know that the rehearsals would take a lot of time and you&#8217;re a bit unsure how you&#8217;d feel about singing and possibly dancing up on stage in front of all those people, but just try out for your school musical. It&#8217;s one of your favorite musicals, one that you&#8217;re going to see almost a dozen times over the next 19 years&#8212;from a couple of high schools, to the Mount Helix amphitheater, to the nearly-professional performance at the  Lawrence Welk Theater which included that guy from the Padres-on-Channel-4 commercial and the dude who was Dean Cain&#8217;s stand-in on &#8220;Lois and Clark&#8221;&#8212;and you are really, really going to regret missing the opportunity to do it when you had the chance. Just do the musical. You&#8217;ll have fun. </p>
<p>Sincerely,<br />
36-year-old Bethany</p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m taking part in a blogging group called <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Reverb-Broads/269777846407671?sk=wall">Reverb Broads</a> that will be suggesting daily blogging prompts this December. It&#8217;s unlikely that I&#8217;ll do it every day, but I&#8217;ll be using them occasionally throughout the month as they tickle my fancy. If you want to join in, feel free! Go <a href="http://bravelyobey.blogspot.com/2011/11/we-want-you.html">here</a> or <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Reverb-Broads/269777846407671?sk=wall">here</a> to learn more.</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 05:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>an interview with Annalie</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Note: I interviewed Annalie for this post back in February or March, wrote it up and added photos and everything, and then&#8230;got stalled. What stalled me? I needed to take one photo of a self-portrait drawing Annalie did that was hanging in my kitchen. That is my life right now: I&#8217;m going in a million [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>Note: I interviewed Annalie for this post back in February or March, wrote it up and added photos and everything, and then&#8230;got stalled. What stalled me? I needed to take one photo of a self-portrait drawing Annalie did that was hanging in my kitchen. That is my life right now: I&#8217;m going in a million directions all the time and couldn&#8217;t even manage to take a photo&#8212;of something I see every day&#8212;for months. Sheesh. </p>
<p>On with the interview!</p>
<p>:: :: :: :: :: </p>
<p>What is your name?</em></p>
<p>Annalie.</p>
<p><em>How old are you?</em></p>
<p>Six.</p>
<p><em>Where do you live?</em></p>
<p>Washington, D.C. Well, actually we live in [Town], [State].</p>
<p><em>Do you have any pets?</em></p>
<p>Yes.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5213653434/" title="giving the cat a haircut by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5087/5213653434_3c1a508729.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="giving the cat a haircut"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5188920864/" title="Lily on the couch by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4090/5188920864_ed33405b14.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Lily on the couch"></a></p>
<p><em>Wanna tell me about them?</em></p>
<p>Yes. I have two pet cats. Their names are Katy and Lily, and they&#8217;re very sweet. They&#8217;re both girls, and Katy really likes to spend time with me; Lily, not so much. But Lily really likes it when I scratch her belly!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4939838219/" title="Bug, Rapunzel, Annalie &amp; Spreckles the dog by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4098/4939838219_b47d7fc25f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Bug, Rapunzel, Annalie &amp; Spreckles the dog"></a></p>
<p><em>Who do you like to play with?</em></p>
<p>I like to play with <a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/">Bug</a>, and <a href="http://imcomfortablycrazy.com/cc/">Suki and Amber</a>, and I like to play with <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/nebraska-indiana-trip-indiana-part-1/">Gabby and Annie</a>. Sometimes I like to play with Mackenzie. She isn&#8217;t as rough as <em>some</em> kids. Also Christa and Cassie and Jack and Morgan and Dylan. And Daddy! I like to play with Daddy, and Elliora.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4769475389/" title="girlfriends by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4135/4769475389_37d0f3d379.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="girlfriends"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite cereal?</em></p>
<p>Hmmm&#8230;Lucky Charms!</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite vegetable?</em></p>
<p>I like carrots because they&#8217;re good plain and with ranch, and also good cooked. I also like peas; they taste good plain and cooked. This is an odd thing to tell people, but I also like peas sometimes in ranch dressing. It&#8217;s good, you should try it!</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite drink?</em></p>
<p>I like&#8230;lemonade, and I like root beer, and sometimes chocolate milk. Oh, and I like Kool-Aid! Ah, the sweet taste of Kool-Aid.</p>
<p><em>What&#8217;s your favorite flavor of Kool-Aid?</em></p>
<p>Fruit punch. For the record, I really like the kind you drop in the little tablet and you see it fizz up and evolve into the whole drink!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5397032877/" title="food face by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5215/5397032877_75f92a0fd3.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="food face"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite snack?</em></p>
<p>Strawberry cream cheese roll-up, and crackers and cheese. I like simple kinds of crackers, like Club Crackers or Ritz, and cheddar cheese.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite toy?</em></p>
<p>I like a lot of toys, that&#8217;s hard!</p>
<p><em>Well, I just remembered I need to put the cookie dough in the fridge. Hang on a sec.</em></p>
<p>That&#8217;s good, I can think about it for a minute then.</p>
<p><em>Okay, did you think of a favorite toy?</em></p>
<p>I did think of a type of toy I really like, but it&#8217;s not really a <em>specific</em> toy. I like toys you can play with in pools like goggles and flippers. I especially like goggles because you can put them on and see underwater!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5031193949/" title="splishing and splashing by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4109/5031193949_3e39df1ac4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="splishing and splashing"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite TV Show?</em></p>
<p><a href="http://pbskids.org/wildkratts/">Wild Kratts</a>. And I like Johnny Test, Pokemon, Spongebob, Fairly Oddparents, <a href="http://www.nbc.com/chuck/">Chuck</a>, and Dragonball Z-Kai. Did you write all those down?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5348004163/" title="happy girl by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5243/5348004163_c8401324c4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy girl"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite movie?</em></p>
<p>I like <a href="http://adisney.go.com/disneypictures/tangled/?int_cmp=dcom_tan_WDSMP_dcom_charaport_thumb_PS_Intl#/home/">Tangled</a>, and I also like <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0482603/">Space Chimps</a>.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite game?</em></p>
<p>Angry Birds. And I also like, um&#8230;the game I almost always play with Daddy, the car-racing game. It&#8217;s one where you can drive anywhere, like off-road and up the mountains, and you can do leaps. Sometimes you can <em>feel</em> it in the game controller when you jump off things! It&#8217;s kind of funny.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5407261496/" title="playing with Rachel's iPad by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5018/5407261496_739c552e80.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="playing with Rachel's iPad"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5353451039/" title="bonding over Angry Birds on the Droid by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5043/5353451039_f152a6a2f6.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="bonding over Angry Birds on the Droid"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite book?</em></p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Boxcar_Children">The Boxcar Children</a>. It starts out a bit sad, but then it ends really happy. And one of the girls&#8217; names is Violet, which is my sister Elliora&#8217;s middle name!</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite restaurant?</em></p>
<p>Ooh, I like a lot of restaurants. That one in Omaha we go to a lot, what&#8217;s it called?</p>
<p><em>Wheatfields, the one with the fountains?</em></p>
<p>No, the one we go to with Uncle Ben a lot, where sometimes we can get balloon animals?</p>
<p><em>Oh, Spaghetti Works? </em></p>
<p>Yeah, <a href="http://www.spagworks.com/">Spaghetti Works</a>! And I like <a href="http://www.wheatfieldscatering.com/">Wheatfields</a> too. They have fondue, and the big paintings, and the fountain! I love that place. Maybe we could go there for my actual birthday dinner, since we&#8217;ll be in Omaha? </p>
<p><em>Sure, we can do that.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5714510919/" title="seven! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2286/5714510919_a36e7c1593.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="seven!"></a><br />
<em>(We did!)</em></p>
<p>Can we get cheese fondue?</p>
<p><em>Yes we can.</em></p>
<p>I love that! I cannot get enough of that.</p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite holiday?</em></p>
<p>My favorite holiday iiiiiizzz&#8230;Easter, Valentine&#8217;s Day, and Christmas. Because on Christmas you sometimes get to go sledding, and you get Advent calendars, and you get to open presents right away in the morning, even in your pajamas! And on Valentine&#8217;s Day, sometimes you get Valentines and gifts, and you can make cookies. And on Easter you get to go Easter-egg hunting. Sometimes on Easter my mommy gets me and Dad special baskets, and she&#8217;ll probably get a little basket for Elliora this year too.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/4498934873/" title="field of violets by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2716/4498934873_d1782038ef.jpg" width="248" height="374" alt="field of violets"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5445324169/" title="I love you! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5220/5445324169_eb598992ab.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="I love you!"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5662752897/" title="checking out her basket by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5229/5662752897_06af807989.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="checking out her basket"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5332703012/" title="snowflake! by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5041/5332703012_896e0f22e0.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="snowflake!"></a></p>
<p><em>What’s your favorite animal?</em></p>
<p>Horses. I like horses.</p>
<p><em>If you could change your name, what name would you choose?</em></p>
<p>I would choose&#8230;[thinking]&#8230;Crystal! It&#8217;s a pretty name, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p><em>What do you love about each person in our family?</em></p>
<p>I love that Elliora is a cute baby, and I&#8217;m glad that Katy and Lily are nice and gentle and they love me. And I&#8217;m glad that Daddy is a funny guy and he almost always tickles me, it&#8217;s so fun. And I&#8217;m glad that Mommy&#8217;s cooking is delicious, and she is really good at making me birthday cakes. They taste the best when they&#8217;re made by my mom&#8212;not just any old mom, MY mom.</p>
<p><em>Aw, thanks. I&#8217;m happy you like my cakes.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5213654376/" title="mini pumpkin pies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5283/5213654376_6bcaa53e3f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="mini pumpkin pies"></a></p>
<p>And remember that one time you made those <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/mini-pumpkin-cheesecake-pies/">mini pumpkin cheesecakes</a>? Those were soooo good.</p>
<p><em>Thanks!</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5572998979/" title="little cousin, big cousin by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5100/5572998979_58113647c5.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="little cousin, big cousin"></a></p>
<p>And I&#8217;m glad that Aurora is one year old and she&#8217;s cute and adorable and can walk now! I&#8217;m glad she&#8217;s my cousin. I can&#8217;t wait till the next time I get to see her!</p>
<p><em>What do you love most about yourself?</em></p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s hard. </p>
<p><em>Why, because you like so many things about yourself?</em></p>
<p>No, because if I say things I like about myself, it&#8217;s sort of like I&#8217;m saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m pretty and you&#8217;re not!&#8221;</p>
<p><em>You mean like bragging?</em></p>
<p>Yeah. I just don&#8217;t think it would be very polite, would it?</p>
<p><em>Well, there&#8217;s a difference between bragging and just saying things you&#8217;re good at.</em></p>
<p>I guess so.</p>
<p><em>So is there anything you think you&#8217;re good at or that you like about yourself that you can say without bragging?</em></p>
<p>I think I&#8217;m good at making pancakes. I&#8217;m a good cook, when I have help from you. And I&#8217;m good at coloring, and I&#8217;m also good at playing Angry Birds. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5397032851/" title="window painting by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5055/5397032851_63abde942b.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="window painting"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5153009139/" title="squeezy bottles are great for pancake batter by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4048/5153009139_1784586c5e.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="squeezy bottles are great for pancake batter"></a></p>
<p><em>Where would you like to go on vacation this year?</em></p>
<p>Hawaii.</p>
<p><em>Well, we&#8217;re not gonna make it to Hawaii this year. But I think we are going to visit <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/busy-having-fun/">Erin and Rocco in Oregon</a>, how does that sound?</em></p>
<p>Good!</p>
<p><em>What are some of your wishes for this year?</em></p>
<p>This year I wanna have a Zoobles treehouse. And I wish I could see Niagara Falls! That would be the funnest thing in the entire world. And I want to <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/annalie-lost-her-first-tooth/">lose more teeth</a>! Another one is loose, I think.</p>
<p><em>Thanks for the interview, Annalie!</em></p>
<p>You&#8217;re welcome, Mama.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5917579124/" title="self-portrait of Annalie and portrait of Elliora by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6129/5917579124_dcee8411fd.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="self-portrait of Annalie and portrait of Elliora"></a><br />
<em><font size="1">Annalie&#8217;s self-portrait, age 6y8m</font></em></p>
<p><em>Inspiration for this interview originally came from <a href="http://blissfullydomestic.com/blissful-kids/new-years-interview-for-kids/">New Year&#8217;s Interview for Kids</a> at Blissfully Domestic (via <a href="http://belladia.typepad.com/crafty_crow/2009/01/yearly-intervie.html">The Crafty Crow</a>).  </p>
<p>I did <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2009/">this interview in 2009</a> and <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/an-interview-with-annalie-2010/">2010</a> too, though I published them in a much more timely manner both those times. </em></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 03:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Outside my window the hotel pool is glowing gently. We&#8217;re in North Carolina for a short trip. Annalie&#8217;s cousin Brett had his birthday party today and this year we were able to attend. Tomorrow we&#8217;ll hang out with Dana and Paul and Brett and Leo at their house before heading home after lunch. Troy, Annalie [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Outside my window</strong> the hotel pool is glowing gently. We&#8217;re in North Carolina for a short trip. Annalie&#8217;s cousin Brett had his birthday party today and this year we were able to attend. Tomorrow we&#8217;ll hang out with Dana and Paul and Brett and Leo at their house before heading home after lunch. Troy, Annalie and Elliora are all asleep already.</p>
<p><strong>I am thinking</strong> about the six baby blankets I want to make in the next three months. Two of them are already in progress. Am I insane to think I can manage that? We shall see.</p>
<p><strong>I am thankful for</strong> everything, really. I feel like I whine and complain a lot these days, but I know how blessed I am. I have the luxury of being annoyed when the signal I&#8217;m using to access the internet as we drive down I-95 blips out for a second. My problems could be so much bigger, and they&#8217;re not. #diamondshoes </p>
<p><strong>I am wearing</strong> a nightgown. But that&#8217;s boring, so instead I&#8217;ll tell you about two things I wore today which you may also find boring unless you are a breastfeeding mother. Feel free to skip ahead if you&#8217;re bored already. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been searching for the perfect nursing shirt for, oh, seven years, really. I think I may have finally found it: the <a href="http://www.momzelle.com/details/81/#023--nursing-crisscross-tee">nursing criss-cross tee</a> from <a href="http://www.momzelle.com/nursing-clothing">Momzelle</a>. My main problem with most nursing shirts is that I have broad shoulders and a wide ribcage, but I&#8217;m not, shall we say, overly endowed in the chestal area&#8212;not even when I&#8217;m nursing. So shirts that fit my shoulders and torso completely droop down my front and <a href="http://twitter.com/#!/bethanyactually/status/79968905136832512">show my bra to the world</a>. Shirts that are more modest fit me like cling wrap, which is neither flattering nor comfortable. So I&#8217;m fairly excited to have finally found a shirt that (a) fits my proportions, (b) is comfortable and cute, and (b) is easy to nurse in. Huzzah! </p>
<p>The other thing I was wearing today that might interest you if you&#8217;re a nursing mother or plan on spending a lot of time holding a baby is this <a href="http://www.etsy.com/transaction/51505011">turquoise nursing necklace</a> from the Etsy shop <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/mylilmarket">My Lil Market</a>. I had a couple of nursing necklaces when Annalie was a baby, but they were more of the bright-tacky-plastic variety. This one is so pretty, I will probably be wearing it long after Elliora has stopped nursing. But I&#8217;ll definitely keep wearing it now because Elliora <em>loved</em> it. She spent several hours today playing with the beads and shoving different parts of it in her mouth. Not surprising, really; I&#8217;m sure this string of beads and stones is far more enticing than the specifically-designed-to-interest-a-baby necklaces I used to have, because babies always reject their fun toys in favor of the forbidden grown-up things, don&#8217;t they? </p>
<p><strong>I am remembering</strong> that tomorrow, in addition to being my nephew Brett&#8217;s birthday, is also my other sister-in-law&#8217;s wedding anniversary and the anniversary of the day my mom, my brother and I were all baptized. </p>
<p><strong>I am going</strong> to brush my teeth. Be right back.</p>
<p><strong>I am currently reading</strong> <a href="http://www.powells.com/biblio/9780767903820?&#038;PID=32442">I&#8217;m a Stranger Here Myself: Notes on Returning to America after Twenty Years Away</a>, by Bill Bryson. This is another one I&#8217;m re-reading. Bill Bryson is one of my favorite authors&#8212;partly because he&#8217;s hilarious in a nerdy, befuddled, self-deprecating way that just rings my bell; and partly because he once sent me a letter in reply to one I&#8217;d written him&#8212;and reading his books is kind of like eating meatloaf and mashed potatoes or homemade macaroni and cheese. It&#8217;s comfort food for my brain and soul.</p>
<p><strong>I am hoping</strong> that our drive home tomorrow goes as well as the 4.5-hour drive down did. Elliora slept for a total of three hours and change, played with a toy or looked out the window for another hour, and only cried for a few minutes right after lunch and about 15 minutes at the tail end of the trip. Fingers crossed.</p>
<p><strong>On my mind</strong>: <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/for-samantha-update-with-sad-news/">Samantha</a> and her parents. </p>
<p><strong>Noticing that</strong> Annalie is almost as tall as I am. I picked her up today for the first time in a while and was kind of shocked how big she seemed. I&#8217;m sure part of that is because these days I&#8217;m usually carrying Elliora, but still.</p>
<p><strong>Around the house</strong> we have way too much stuff. Troy and I were just talking yesterday about how we&#8217;re overdue for a good clearing-out and getting-rid-of. Usually we do that as we unpack after a move, but maybe we&#8217;ll do it before we move this time.</p>
<p><strong>In the kitchen</strong>, I am spending a lot more time lately. (Yoda, I sound like.) Elliora loves to eat. Like, she LOVES to eat. I am happy to make most of her food but it means I&#8217;m spending quite a bit more time in the kitchen lately, feeding her as well as cooking for her. I don&#8217;t really mind a bit, though. It&#8217;s so fun to feed a baby who likes everything we&#8217;ve offered her.<br />
Applesauce (with and without cinnamon), mashed bananas, oatmeal, mixed-grain cereal, carrots, sweet potato, butternut squash, peas, green beans, spinach, pears, peaches, mango, avocado, refried beans, broccoli, rice, beef, turkey, ham, blueberries, pumpkin, watermelon, chicken, black olive, bacon, cheddar cheese, goat cheese, plain yogurt, mashed potatoes with garlic, Cheerios, asparagus&#8230;I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;m forgetting some. Seriously, she likes everything.)</p>
<p><strong>One of my favorite things</strong> is finding awesome new TV shows to watch, and then geeking out over them with friends.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5745314738/" title="Annalie on the left, Elliora on the right by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2675/5745314738_b8552462b6.jpg" width="500" height="250" alt="Annalie on the left, Elliora on the right"></a></p>
<p><strong>From my photo archive</strong>: Speaking of Elliora eating, here is a picture of her (on the right) eating carrots at 5 months old. Annalie (on the left) was about a year old when this picture was taken in June 2005, and was eating Spaghetti-Os. </p>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend Bonnie decided on her birthday this year that she would take a picture every day of something that made her happy, to remind herself in the midst of a difficult time to Find the Happy. She decided to create a Flickr group so her friends could share the happy too. Finding a bit [...]]]></description>
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<p>My friend <a href="http://zebrabelly.wordpress.com/">Bonnie</a> decided on her birthday this year that she would take a picture every day of something that made her happy, <a href=" http://zebrabelly.wordpress.com/2011/02/15/happy-things/">to remind herself in the midst of a difficult time to Find the Happy</a>. She decided to create a Flickr group so her friends could share the happy too.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/1635752@N23/">Finding a bit of Happy each day.</a></p>
<p>The rules: </p>
<p>1. Find some Happy and photograph it each day. You could choose to do it less often if that works better for your life but my theory is that the more often you look for the Happy, the more the Happy helps.<br />
2. Do it for a year. Or less. Or more. Or as needed.<br />
3. No Unhappy allowed. That also includes self-abuse if you miss a day or lots of days. Hippie voice: Go with the flow, man. Everything is as it should be.<br />
4. Rules are for breaking. Except Number 3, it&#8217;s best not to upset Hippie Voice.</p></blockquote>
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<p>My heart has been heavy lately, thinking about <a href="http://bethanyactually.com/for-samantha-update-with-sad-news/">Samantha</a>. So I&#8217;m reminding myself of some <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157625982600103/with/5620853181/">happy things</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5470026261/" title="happy thing: homemade black &amp; white cookies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5295/5470026261_e1efcc9571.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: homemade black &amp; white cookies"></a></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but homemade <a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/09/black-and-white-cookies/">black-and-white cookies</a> make me very happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5470026229/" title="bonus happy thing by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5134/5470026229_ff04f902ee.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="bonus happy thing"></a></p>
<p>So does the cool way the sun was reflecting off this dotty coffee mug. Like little bubbles of sunlight!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5478484332/" title="happy thing: Annalie marked Troy's birthday on her calendar by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5258/5478484332_14c1688e1c.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: Annalie marked Troy's birthday on her calendar"></a></p>
<p>I happened to glance at Annalie&#8217;s calendar a day or two before Troy&#8217;s birthday and was tickled to realize that she had drawn a miniature portrait of our family on that date, complete with him in a party hat.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5487651489/" title="happy thing: a teeny painting of a harried-looking coffee-drinking cat arriving in the mail by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5292/5487651489_d0d7bb9be8.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: a teeny painting of a harried-looking coffee-drinking cat arriving in the mail"></a></p>
<p>I love it when I get <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/68740879/stack-o-paintings">a teeny painting of a harried-looking coffee-drinking cat</a> in the mail. Thanks, <a href="http://secret-agent-josephine.com/blog/">Brenda</a>!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5491274844/" title="happy thing: french toast on a dottery plate by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5097/5491274844_d2099e47d7.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: french toast on a dottery plate"></a></p>
<p>French toast with powdered sugar on a sunshiny dottery plate. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5519468504/" title="happy thing: making time for crocheting by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5179/5519468504_d7b93b85b9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: making time for crocheting"></a></p>
<p>Keeping a baby alive and homeschooling a 7-year-old are both time-consuming pursuits (duh), but while I barely have time to shower and I don&#8217;t seem to have time for housework, I manage to cook dinner almost every night and write emails and blog posts (sort of) and I&#8217;ve been crocheting a lot. So I guess it&#8217;s true that you do make time for what you love. And crocheting makes me happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5539168082/" title="happy thing: how much Annalie loves her little sister by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5134/5539168082_a578892202.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: how much Annalie loves her little sister"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5618591048/" title="happy thing: taking my Emergen-C in this little glass from a wine festival in Cyprus by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5267/5618591048_51e7fa7f47.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: taking my Emergen-C in this little glass from a wine festival in Cyprus"></a></p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure that in a year or so I&#8217;ll be hearing many cries of &#8220;Mo-ooom, make her stop touching my stuff!&#8221; So I try extra hard to enjoy the sweet moments like this, when it&#8217;s clear how much Annalie loves her little sister.</p>
<p>On one of Troy&#8217;s Navy deployments years ago, he happened to go to a wine festival in Cyprus, and he brought back two of these little glasses. They&#8217;re the perfect size for a shot of juice or taking a packet of Emergen-C, and it makes me smile each time I use one. It&#8217;s such a random thing to have in my cupboard, small wineglasses from a Cypriot wine festival, yet there they are.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5620853181/" title="happy thing(s): a good book and success for a friend by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5225/5620853181_5cf6af052e.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="happy thing(s): a good book and success for a friend"></a></p>
<p>I went to high school and college with <a href="http://rainbowrowell.com/">Rainbow Rowell</a>. (I know, awesome name!) She wasn&#8217;t someone I hung out with, but we knew each other. We had mutual friends, and when we went to the same university we occasionally ate lunch together. I&#8217;ve been reading Rainbow&#8217;s writing for two decades now, mostly in newspaper-column or blog-post form, but now I&#8217;ve read something way more exciting: Rainbow&#8217;s very first novel, a romantic comedy called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Attachments-Rainbow-Rowell/dp/0525951989">Attachments</a>. The night I started reading it, I actually got out of bed at 3:30am, feeling compelled to send Rainbow a message to let her know I was loving her book and was genuninely happy for and proud of her. (I&#8217;ll be interviewing Rainbow soon and doing a giveaway of her book in a blog post, so stay tuned for that!)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5779437507/" title="happy thing: rosy room by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2081/5779437507_193dc65b9d.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: rosy room"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5779985010/" title="happy thing: wildflower &amp; wild strawberry bouquet by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5106/5779985010_0a4fa1edde.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: wildflower &amp; wild strawberry bouquet"></a></p>
<p>The sun was shining into Annalie&#8217;s room just right one afternoon so that her bright fuchsia sheets were reflecting a pink glow onto everything else in the room. A few days later, Annalie picked this bouquet of wildflowers, leaves of grass, and a wild strawberry from our yard for me and arranged them in an old vanilla bottle. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5785488732/" title="happy thing: a brunch that everyone can eat by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3378/5785488732_ae4f2e9e47.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: a brunch that everyone can eat"></a></p>
<p>The first Saturday that <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/girlwithgreencard/">Sonja</a> was here, <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluesleepy/">Karyl</a> &#038; her girls came up to <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/sets/72157626733323821/with/5785488732/">spend the day with us</a>, which was super fun. We started with brunch&#8212;<a href="http://bethanyactually.com/day-4-christmas-morning-aebleskiver/">aebleskiver</a> and<a href="http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/the-surreal-gourmet/blackened-home-fried-potatoes-from-hell-recipe/index.html"> home-fried potatoes</a> and bacon and fruit&#8212;which made me very happy because I love brunch. Also, I made the aebleskiver with almond milk and coconut oil and maple syrup (in place of cow&#8217;s milk and butter and granulated sugar) so Sonja could eat them, and they were totally as delicious as usual. It was a Very Happy Thing indeed: brunch everyone could eat!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5802256181/" title="happy thing: Sonja-safe brownies by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5159/5802256181_77401c1285.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: Sonja-safe brownies"></a></p>
<p>Sonja-safe brownies, made with coconut oil instead of butter and honey instead of sugar. And they tasted good! Yay! I had fun meeting the challenge of cooking without ingredients I usually rely on while Sonja was here. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806864955/" title="happy thing: when naps end like this by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5109/5806864955_7339e485fc.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: when naps end like this"></a></p>
<p>I love it when naps end like this, with Elliora waking up in the Ergo and smiling when she sees me. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806865319/" title="happy thing: perfectly summery meal by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3566/5806865319_b4f98edc56.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: perfectly summery meal"></a></p>
<p>If I have to put up with hot and humid summer weather, at least I get to eat perfectly summery meals like this: grilled mini burgers, strawberries, and marinated cucumber salad. Yum. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806865245/" title="happy thing: geeky necklace from Etsy by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3310/5806865245_0a0b12d81f.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: geeky necklace from Etsy"></a></p>
<p>After seeing <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/out-of-my-mind/5287994308/">Lauren&#8217;s Doctor Who necklace</a> on Flickr, I stalked <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/imaginationemporium?ref=pr_shop_more">this Etsy shop</a> until she listed more so I could buy one for myself. I like how the high-top sneaker is a reference to the Chucks habitually worn by both the <a href="http://charactersinconverse.tumblr.com/post/4677529607/the-tenth-doctor-in-converse-sneakers">Tenth Doctor</a> and <a href="http://charactersinconverse.tumblr.com/post/4679465372/chuck-bartowski-in-converse-sneakers">Chuck Bartowski</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5501629374/" title="happy thing: popcorn traditions by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5012/5501629374_09eda2477c.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: popcorn traditions"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5806865371/" title="happy thing: dark chocolate with caramel and black sea salt by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5110/5806865371_ca7b0e3bdb.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: dark chocolate with caramel and black sea salt"></a></p>
<p>We often make popcorn with the very air-popper that I used when I was a kid, and eat it out of the exact stainless-steel bowl I used to eat popcorn from. (My mom was getting rid of the air popper and asked if I wanted it; I basically swiped the bowl because I loved it so much. Both these things are 30+ years old.) </p>
<p>Trader Joe&#8217;s dark chocolate bar with caramel bar and black sea salt. Enough said.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5825010492/" title="happy thing: living near a good bakery by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3048/5825010492_651a2a6475.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: living near a good bakery"></a></p>
<p>We live near a good bakery and stop there on a regular basis for treats. Every time, Annalie carefully surveys the variety of lovely, fancy cookies and pastries&#8230;and then requests a plain butter cookie. I love that.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5824451053/" title="happy thing: neighbors who own a bounce house by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2227/5824451053_e9d86ccfdd.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: neighbors who own a bounce house"></a> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5824451379/" title="happy thing: summer rain by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5305/5824451379_6c3c0fdec6.jpg" width="248" height="372" alt="happy thing: summer rain"></a></p>
<p>I believe we&#8217;ve mentioned before that our neighbors across the street actually <em>own</em> a bounce house? They put it up for birthdays and parties and random weekends just for fun. And they are happy to share it with the neighborhood kids. </p>
<p>Rain always makes me happy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5825010604/" title="happy thing: neon aquamarine polish by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2161/5825010604_084da8fac9.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="happy thing: neon aquamarine polish"></a></p>
<p>Neon aquamarine polish, and bare feet outside, and green grass, and bits of sidewalk chalk. Basically, summer&#8217;s here!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is Annalie when she was 13 months old, lying on Cuddle Blanket&#8212;the blanket I crocheted for her. This is Elliora, six months old, lying on Green Blanket&#8212;the blanket I crocheted for her&#8212;wearing the same outfit as Annalie in the first photo. This is why, whenever random strangers comment on how small Elliora is, I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/443205102/" title="Annalie, Elmo &amp; Cuddle Blanket by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/152/443205102_c3d6186f62.jpg" width="500" height="376" alt="Annalie, Elmo &amp; Cuddle Blanket"></a></p>
<p>This is Annalie when she was 13 months old, lying on Cuddle Blanket&#8212;the blanket I crocheted for her.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bethanygronberg/5802642027/" title="Elliora on green blanket, age 6mo by bethany actually, on Flickr"><img border="0" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2122/5802642027_7746dfb8f4.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Elliora on green blanket, age 6mo"></a></p>
<p>This is Elliora, six months old, lying on Green Blanket&#8212;the blanket I crocheted for her&#8212;wearing the same outfit as Annalie in the first photo. This is why, whenever random strangers comment on how small Elliora is, I just smile and agree. She is on the small size, yes. But she&#8217;s HUGE compared to Annalie at the same age.</p>
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